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homewrecked2011
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Member # 34678
Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, May 28th (Tuesday)

I was thinking today how far I have come since DDAY. Thank you to all SI'ers.

I was so intimidated that I went to a counselor to ask if it is NORMAL for a H to ask his wife to blow kisses to other women in cars, if all husbands try to get their wives in bed w other women,is all men go to topless bars when their wives are pregnant, if I was allowed to take my children to counseling while separated from my wh.

List goes on.

Gees, how did I get that low?

Anyway, I finally realize I don't need XWH. He is a loser, and I am the winner in this D and new beginning!


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 1715 | Registered: Jan 2012
Amazonia
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Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 8:53 PM, May 28th (Tuesday)


Growth is my favorite!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13204 | Registered: Jul 2011
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, May 28th (Tuesday)

(((((homewrecked))))) Yay!


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


Posts: 22712 | Registered: Aug 2011
persevere
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Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, May 28th (Tuesday)

It gradually just gets better and better - so happy for you homewrecked!


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4160 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
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