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LadyQ
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Member # 32847
Default  Posted: 6:49 PM, June 1st (Saturday)

No further text


Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

Posts: 1650 | Registered: Jul 2011
shiloe
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Member # 1224
Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, June 1st (Saturday)

Me too.


But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 54
Cheater -54
Married 26 yrs
DD - 21 DD -19 DS-17
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA with married ho-worker. Kicked him out, he filed

Posts: 491 | Registered: Mar 2003
kernel
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Member # 27035
Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, June 1st (Saturday)

Well, you're not alone anyway. Lots of us out here on the boards. Maybe hang out in F & G for a laugh or two.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

Posts: 4661 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, June 1st (Saturday)

(((Lady)))
(((shiloe)))

Lean on us.




Posts: 30701 | Registered: Mar 2011
LadyQ
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Member # 32847
Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, June 1st (Saturday)

Shiloe, tell me what's goin' on in your world...


Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...

Posts: 1650 | Registered: Jul 2011
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, June 1st (Saturday)

You're not fully alone here.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 elementary school-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 8783 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Meadhbh
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Member # 23087
Default  Posted: 11:09 PM, June 1st (Saturday)

It does get better! Stay strong.


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor is just an idiot in tin foil."

Posts: 1074 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Middle USA
Housefulloflove
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Member # 38458
Default  Posted: 11:19 PM, June 1st (Saturday)

Hugs LadyQ!

Strangely enough I came here just now because this is exactly what I'm feeling right now.


Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

Posts: 541 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
MissD
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Member # 39377
Default  Posted: 11:24 PM, June 1st (Saturday)

I live that SI is a place that is safe for us when feelings of sadness and loneliness overwhelm.


BW 40's - WH 50's
M 20yrs, T 23yrs
2 children
Multiple EA, OA,& PA's
Thankful for my faith in God to be my strong tower.

Posts: 70 | Registered: May 2013
TrustGone
Member
Member # 36654
Default  Posted: 11:44 PM, June 1st (Saturday)

Me too. Even when WH#2 is lying beside me snoring I still feel so lost and alone now. It seems it doesn't really matter who is lying beside him as long as someone is. He's not really that picky anymore.


BW-50
WH#2-51
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
getting_stronger
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Member # 32858
Default  Posted: 12:30 AM, June 2nd (Sunday)

I'm sorry- I'm right there with you.

Posts: 62 | Registered: Jul 2011
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