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sportsfan
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Default  Posted: 11:30 PM, June 3rd (Monday)

... thanks for all who have sent mojo's, prayers and kind thoughts this way recently. My mother passed very peacefully this morning. What I just went through was life changing ... I mean that positively. Again, thank you friends ...

Posts: 1915 | Registered: Feb 2006 | From: PA
click4it
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Member # 209
Default  Posted: 11:35 PM, June 3rd (Monday)

((((((sports))))))))

sending warm hugs and comfort.


Me: 41
Two boys: 16 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25502 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
TattoodChinaDoll
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Member # 34602
Default  Posted: 11:38 PM, June 3rd (Monday)

(((Sportsfan)))


Me (BW): 32
WH: 33 TimeToManUp
Married: 10 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 8, 5, 2, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011

What am I doing?


Posts: 1556 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
purplejacket4
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Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 11:42 PM, June 3rd (Monday)

Prayers to you.


Me: BS 44
Her: fWS 47 (same sex partner)
Together: 17 now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 1861 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
MovingUpward
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Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 11:45 PM, June 3rd (Monday)

Prayers to you and your family.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

There are shortcuts to happiness, and dancing is one of them-Vicky Baum


Posts: 49764 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
gonnabe2016
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Member # 34823
Default  Posted: 11:51 PM, June 3rd (Monday)

I'm so sorry for your loss. Even expected and peaceful...it still hurts.

{{{hugs}}}


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OCyL6pa_L4M


Posts: 7254 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
willow60
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Member # 17243
Default  Posted: 12:04 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

I;m so sorry for your loss.

My thoughts and prayers are going out to and your family.


Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead....Adele

Posts: 960 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Upstate NY
SweetheartVixen
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Member # 4956
Default  Posted: 12:19 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

Im so sorry. Prayers and hugs to you.


BS/60s WS/60s Divorcing and not soon enough~!
Its nice to be important, but its more important to be nice...

DD 6-14


Posts: 3083 | Registered: Jul 2004 | From: somewhere over the rainbow
SweetheartVixen
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Member # 4956
Default  Posted: 12:28 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

Im so sorry. Prayers.


BS/60s WS/60s Divorcing and not soon enough~!
Its nice to be important, but its more important to be nice...

DD 6-14


Posts: 3083 | Registered: Jul 2004 | From: somewhere over the rainbow
woundedby2
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Member # 18522
Default  Posted: 12:50 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

(((sportsfan)))

My condolences to you and your family.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7635 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
DeadMumWalking
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Member # 25341
Default  Posted: 12:53 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

((((sportsfan))))

I'm so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

((((sportsfan))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2508 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
deeplysad
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Member # 16590
Default  Posted: 1:16 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

I'm so sorry for your loss

((((sportsfan))))


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


Posts: 3177 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 1:17 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

((((HUGS))))


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 elementary school-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 8787 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:15 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

(((Sportsfan)))

I'm so sorry for your loss. Condolences from our family to yours.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 34758 | Registered: Sep 2007
stronger08
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Default  Posted: 5:28 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

I'm sorry my friend. It hurts losing a parent. Both of my parents are gone. And while I was never that close to either of them (Kind of a black sheep of the family) I still miss them at times.


You cant eat soup with chopsticks.

Posts: 5434 | Registered: Nov 2007
travels
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Member # 20334
Default  Posted: 5:55 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

((((sportsfan))))


When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.

Rest In Peace Bo the Beagle 1996-2011


Posts: 3744 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: PA
cryingdaily
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Member # 7276
Default  Posted: 5:57 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

(((sportsfan)))

Prayers.


Me: BS 48
Him: Doesn't matter any more.
The Royal Court, formerly known as the Princess Posse:
DD31 - Belle
DD23 - Xena
GD10 - Jasmine
GD8 - Ariel
GD Born 9/4/12 - Tink

Posts: 14368 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: Massachusetts
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 6:08 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

I'm so sorry for your loss. (((Sports)))




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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 6:35 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

(((Sportsfan)))

I understand. I'm so sorry for your loss


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:05 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

I'm sorry. You're in my thoughts.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7035 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
luv_lost
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Member # 24621
Default  Posted: 7:24 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

(((sportsfan)))

I'm so sorry for your loss. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts.


BW (me) 31
WH 33
DS1 8 yrs.
DS2 1 yr.

Anniversary 6/09/04
DDay 6/27/09
Wedding 3/15/12
DDay2 5/5/13

presently working towards...well i don't know anymore...


Posts: 155 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Philly, PA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:28 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

(((((Sportsfan))))) Holding you and your family in my thoughts.


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 7:40 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

I'm very sorry

Posts: 13356 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

(((sportsfan)))

Posts: 10975 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: North Carolina
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 7:53 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

Sorry for your loss Sportsfan


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3084 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 8:05 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

I'm sorry for your loss. Your family will be in my prayers.

Posts: 3098 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
FaithFool
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Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 8:33 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

(((sportsfan)))


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
Celebrating 60 years on Earth

Posts: 16634 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Tred
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Member # 34086
Default  Posted: 8:42 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

{{{Sport
Take care mate.


Married: 16 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3305 | Registered: Dec 2011
whensenough
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Member # 36700
Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

(((Sportsfan)))


WSO: 29
BSO: 27 mommy of 3 under 7, #4 due may 2013
D Day#1: august 25 2010 ow#1
D Day#2: jun 15 2012 from 7 mt PA/EA with ow#2
+ a couple of short term flings.
D Day #3 sometime the last week in march / false R Same ow
OVER IT ALL!! DONE!!

Posts: 222 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Tx
wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 9:05 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

Sorry for your loss sportsfan


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 35371 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
jrc1963
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Member # 26531
Default  Posted: 9:32 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

(((Sportsfan)))

I'm sorry for your loss.


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 23974 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
SoVerySadNow
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Member # 36711
Default  Posted: 9:33 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

I'm sorry for your loss. Prayers.


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1265 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
Kalleigh
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Member # 1214
Default  Posted: 9:45 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

sendng my prayers


I love my husband and kids, but there is something missing, LIKE MAYBE A LIFE!!!!!!!

Posts: 6479 | Registered: Mar 2003 | From: Wisconsin
ajsmom
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Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 11:11 AM, June 4th (Tuesday)

So sorry to hear this news.

Continued prayers for all of you.

(((sportsfan)))

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21011 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
bbee
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Member # 17840
Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, June 4th (Tuesday)

(((sportsfan)))


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


Posts: 6623 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US
girlsbird
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Member # 30877
Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, June 4th (Tuesday)

((((sportsfan)))) Your in my thoughts and prayers


D-Day 10/28/10..almost admission 7/10 Reconciled. I was the betrayed

Posts: 1203 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: arizona
still2suspicious
Member
Member # 31722
Default  Posted: 2:54 PM, June 4th (Tuesday)

I am so sorry sportsfan.

You, and your family, are in my prayers.

(((sportsfan)))


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1181 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
SummerLyn
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Member # 7489
Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, June 4th (Tuesday)

I am so sorry for your loss, Sportsfan. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.


I'd always thought that when I hit rock bottom, there'd be nowhere to go but up. Now I know running around in circles here is also an option.

Posts: 4852 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: Doing time on Pine Tree Lane
SisterMilkshake
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Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, June 4th (Tuesday)

So sorry for the loss your mother, sportsfan. Sending warm thoughts of comfort, caring and peace your way. (((sportsfan)))


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 8987 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Kajem
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Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 9:22 PM, June 4th (Tuesday)

(((((Sportsfan)))))Keeping you and your family in my prayers.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4037 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
metamorphisis
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Member # 12041
Default  Posted: 9:35 PM, June 4th (Tuesday)

(((sportsfan))). I am sorry for your loss.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

Posts: 42820 | Registered: Sep 2006
okaynow
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Member # 13813
Default  Posted: 11:15 PM, June 4th (Tuesday)

(((sportsfan))) May you have peace in your heart during this time.


Married 18 yrs, together 25+.
D-day: 2/18/07.
1 child
The story doesn't really matter anymore. Time is a great healer. Life is good.

Posts: 2425 | Registered: Mar 2007
weeping willow
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Member # 22800
Default  Posted: 3:57 PM, June 5th (Wednesday)

You have my deepest sympathy.

((((sportsfan))))


BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 36 years


Posts: 1791 | Registered: Feb 2009
ExposedNiblet
Member
Member # 30803
Default  Posted: 4:53 PM, June 5th (Wednesday)

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

I am sorry for your loss.


Divorced
Me ($39.95 plus S & H)
DS1(17), DS2(15)

Enjoying this chapter in my life.
Learning that being alone does not mean being lonely.
Discovering that where I've been is not as important as where I'm going.


Posts: 355 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Right Here, Canada
somanyyears
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Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, June 5th (Wednesday)


..sportsfan.. i'm very sorry to read this sad news.

..my prayers are with you and your family at this time.

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 66
Her 63
Married 41 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4018 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
karmahappens
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Member # 35846
Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, June 5th (Wednesday)

I am so sorry for your loss.


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3252 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
dreamlife
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Member # 8142
Default  Posted: 10:25 PM, June 5th (Wednesday)

I am so sorry.

((((huge hugs))))


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

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