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looking forward
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Member # 25238
Default  Posted: 8:39 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

I can do this.
I have done this.
I will continue to do this.

DESPITE THE INCREDIBLE ROLLER COASTER OF EMOTIONS THESE LAST FOUR YEARS.

I am strong!
I am looking forward!


Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

Posts: 2855 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it
Lucky2HaveMe
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Member # 13333
Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Awesome! Congrats.


Indian wisdom says our lives are rivers. We are born somewhere small and quiet and we move toward a place we cannot see, but only imagine. From Tending Roses

Posts: 6561 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: WNY
Lalagirl
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Member # 14576
Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

((((looking forward))))

So proud of you! Congratulations and wishing you a lifetime of sobriety.

As you said - YOU CAN DO THIS!


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 31 years 9/2/14
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS,22 mo.& 2 mo. GD (DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

Posts: 5079 | Registered: May 2007
HFSSC
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Member # 33338
Default  Posted: 9:00 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Woo Hoo!!!!!!!!!!


I wish I could keep up with my days. All I know is 3 months from yesterday I'll have 5 years. And I remember a time when 5 days was unfathomable.

Keep it up. It's an amazing life and just keeps getting better.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2780 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
metamorphisis
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Member # 12041
Default  Posted: 9:00 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Rockstar!!!!!!!!



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

Posts: 44966 | Registered: Sep 2006
purplejacket4
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Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 9:07 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Congrats!!!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2242 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Member # 18449
Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)


Posts: 11750 | Registered: Mar 2008
Betrayal
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Member # 9898
Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

How awesome, congratulations!!! Thank you for sharing


Me,38 BS
Divorced
Married
DS Born 9/6/10

Posts: 2220 | Registered: Feb 2006 | From: IL
MissesJai
Member
Member # 24849
Default  Posted: 10:05 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

congratulations!!!!!! So incredibly happy for you!!


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

Posts: 5977 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
SoVerySadNow
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Member # 36711
Default  Posted: 10:07 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

This is wonderful! Congratulations!


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
simplydevastated
Member
Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Congratulations! I'm so proud of you!


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 1:21 PM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Congrats!! That is awesome!

Posts: 35891 | Registered: Mar 2011
LonelyHusband
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Member # 34145
Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, June 5th (Wednesday)

yup, that is truly awesome, well done.


BS ( me) 41
fWS (OktoberMest) 35
D day #1 29/10/2011, D day #2 15/112011, D day #3 15/03/2012
Reconciling.
“It’s better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all”, is inadequate consolation when you vacuum up a child's hamster'

Posts: 1290 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: UK
InTheRabbitHole
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Member # 19319
Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Great job!

Posts: 202 | Registered: Apr 2008
itainteasy
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Member # 31094
Default  Posted: 2:13 PM, June 5th (Wednesday)

What a wonderful achievement! Congratulations!

Posts: 3419 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
SisterMilkshake
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Member # 30024
Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, June 5th (Wednesday)

That is wonderful news. Hope you are very proud of yourself, it really is an accomplishment.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9801 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
2oldforthis
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Member # 19825
Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Great Job Keep going!


He did not see what he had in me, what I saw in him I did not have!

Love kills slowly.


Posts: 1647 | Registered: Jun 2008
sisoon
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Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Congratulations!


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10374 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
ExposedNiblet
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Member # 30803
Default  Posted: 4:51 PM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Congratulations!


Divorced
Me ($39.95 plus S & H)
DS1(17), DS2(15)

Enjoying this chapter in my life.
Learning that being alone does not mean being lonely.
Discovering that where I've been is not as important as where I'm going.


Posts: 355 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Right Here, Canada
MissD
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Member # 39377
Default  Posted: 4:53 PM, June 5th (Wednesday)

This is a great accomplishment, congratulations!

Posts: 70 | Registered: May 2013
still2suspicious
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Member # 31722
Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Congrats! You are amazing.


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

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Dark Inertia
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Member # 30727
Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, June 5th (Wednesday)

This is wonderful!!! Congratulations!


"If I listened earlier, I wouldn't be here. But that's just the trouble with me. I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it."

Posts: 1281 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: The Ohio
wildbananas
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Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, June 5th (Wednesday)

WTG!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15414 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
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