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WakingFromADream
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Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Phone interview today, another tomorrow. Both sound like really good positions and would be great next steps in a career path plus, keep everything the same and the D moving forward w/o any hitches or changes like having to sell the house instead of keeping it to provide stability for DS.

Really important since it looks like I have a high probability of losing my current job at the end of the month. Right now I'm really just waiting for an email from the VP letting me know that my services are no longer required because they don't have work for me to do.


Me(35) XWW(36) DS(7) DD 11/16/11 EA(PA?) M 11y D 9/3/13

Don't make anyone a priority when you are only an option.


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ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 10:05 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Good luck!!!


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 6

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ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 10:05 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Um, yeah, I meant to double post, cause I really mean it

Good luck!!!

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 10:06 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)]


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 6

Posts: 1991 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Good luck!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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tesla
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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Good luck!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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bbee
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Mojo!


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


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JustDone
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Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)


Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.

Nobody forgets what happens, the secret is learning to live with it.


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ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Awww, that's beautiful ^^^^

I might ask you for this next Tuesday before my mediation

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 11:44 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)]


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 6

Posts: 1991 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 11:25 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

I just really like to repeat myself on this thread for some reason...

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 11:26 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)]


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 6

Posts: 1991 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
dmari
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Default  Posted: 11:40 AM, June 5th (Wednesday)

GOOD LUCK on both phone interviews!!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Mediation date: 7/10/14 and 7/22/14
Final final court date: Oct 2014

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fallingquickly
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Default  Posted: 11:24 PM, June 5th (Wednesday)

Good luck!!!


Me-BW 50
Him-STBXWH

2 Ddays and lots of TT
divorcing

Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken


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WakingFromADream
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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, June 6th (Thursday)

Thanks everyone. That helped calm the nerves. I think that they went well. We will see if I get to go to the in person interviews next.


Me(35) XWW(36) DS(7) DD 11/16/11 EA(PA?) M 11y D 9/3/13

Don't make anyone a priority when you are only an option.


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WakingFromADream
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Cool  Posted: 2:21 PM, July 1st (Monday)

So, as an update, the phone interviews went well but, the first position was filled by an internal candidate and I'm waiting to hear back from the company recruiter for the second who finally called me back late this past Friday.

On a positive note, a few change requests came through for my current position that would keep me safe through the end of the year.

On a spectacular note, I had an interview for another position with the same company that filled the first position and was just given an offer. WooHoo!!! It is working in a position that has long term prospects with a mix of things that will allow me to apply what I know while being able to learn new things which will allow me better employment prospects in the future. Plus it pays more and my commute would be 15 minutes instead of 25. Such a huge relief. I will most likely accept tomorrow, even if they don't agree to more vacation.

So thank you all for all of the positive thoughts in my direction. SI mojo does work. (anecdotally... )


Me(35) XWW(36) DS(7) DD 11/16/11 EA(PA?) M 11y D 9/3/13

Don't make anyone a priority when you are only an option.


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 11:04 AM, July 2nd (Tuesday)

Congrats Waking!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 11:49 AM, July 2nd (Tuesday)

Wooo Hooo.... congratulations waking. That is awesome news.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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