Just noticed that there are almost 1000 new members since I joined not quite 4 months ago. Wow! It is so sad that there are so many of us in this situation and so many more that are not part of this community.
Thank you to all that have taken the time to comment on my posts and lend an ear and give advice when needed.
Me - BS/Him - WH (in our 40's)
Together 21 years/ 1 preschooler
D-day - Jan 24/13 He confessed about affair.
Broken NC -Feb 7-22,Feb 28,March 6
Continued Contact up to July 16
D-DAY 2-July 19 FALSE R!
Posts: 132 | Registered: Feb 2013
catlover50 Member Member # 37154
Posted: 2:33 PM, June 7th (Friday)
So much pain. If only we could all be kinder and more open with each other.
Thank heavens for SI.
Posts: 1384 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
movingforward13 Member Member # 38405
Posted: 4:08 PM, June 7th (Friday)
Every time I refreshed, I see a new screen name. I think 10 people joined today alone. Me- Divorced! 12/4/13
"They cling to their bad choices out of shame, because it is far easier to continue to destroy yourself than to do the heavy work required to fix yourself." - a wiser SIer
Posts: 388 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Northeast US
PurpleBirch Member Member # 39170
Posted: 7:57 PM, June 7th (Friday)
It is sad. At least we have each other for support like you said.Me: BS (32)
Him: WH (31)
Married 3 years.
Confessed to PA April 21 2013.
DS (6), DS (18 months)
Aug 30 2013 He gives me back his ring with an ultimatum: "Get over it or get out".
Status: Done like dinner
Posts: 186 | Registered: May 2013
Deeply Scared Administrator Member # 2
Posted: 10:30 PM, June 7th (Friday)
I think 10 people joined today alone
We have an average of 15-20 registrations a day...I'm always relieved to see that someone in need found support
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
"I'm happily indifferent to the ones who have consistently been wrong" ~kd lang~
Posts: 184783 | Registered: May 2002
cuppacoffee Member Member # 39313
Posted: 12:30 AM, June 8th (Saturday)
I am so grateful for si. Even in the past three weeks I've learned more and gotten more out of my marriage in a long time. It just sucks we all ha to find each other and share knowledge because of unfortunate events.I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you