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Yakamishi
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Default  Posted: 4:29 PM, June 7th (Friday)

I've heard several folks here discuss a timeline. Exactly what does it mean? Is it a narrative? Is it a graph with dates? What exactly is it? Whats the most nourishing format?


Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life

Posts: 222 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Massachusetts
Themusicdied
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Member # 29502
Default  Posted: 8:03 PM, June 7th (Friday)

It can be either of those things, as long as it includes whatever you need to help heal.

My FWS sat with his calendar and then wrote a narrative of how his A progressed. Beginning date, ending date and all meetings in between.

If there are any details you particularly need to know, make sure you ask your WW to include those too.

Sometimes it's too much to read all at one time. But I found it so helpful in the healing process.


BW 53
FWH 54
Married 27 years
DD#1 Oct 2009 PA
DD# 2 Sept 2010 EA continued with same OW
R begins again
Update 7/2012 R going well but
I'll never forget the day the music died

Posts: 107 | Registered: Sep 2010
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