SurvivingInfidelity.com Forums
New Beginnings
User Topic: It's the weekend, peeps!!
Sad in AZ
Member
Member # 24239
Default  Posted: 10:50 PM, June 7th (Friday)

Come on--I've got nothing! (after a week and a half of traveling and dealing with my family, this is good...)

Let me live vicariously through you!


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20281 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
FaithFool
Member
Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, June 7th (Friday)

Well I just got home from appy hour at the Tap Room.

Had two pints of nice lager and some really good crispy fish tacos.

Home with Netflix and one more beer, and maybe some chocklit.

How is that for a hot evening?


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17488 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
She11ybeanz
Member
Member # 27457
Default  Posted: 11:06 PM, June 7th (Friday)

FaithFool!!! Do you live in Virginia!?? There is a Tap Room in my town!!! (although I've never been myself)

I just got home with my daughter from "gals night in" with good food....good company...and good wine!

[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 11:07 PM, June 7th (Friday)]


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2724 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
LeftBehind08
Member
Member # 38705
Default  Posted: 11:48 PM, June 7th (Friday)

Tonight was filled with a school carnival for DS(with an awesome lil' petting zoo too) and then off to watch my DD play indoor soccer.

Last me + DS took the long way home, sang loud to Macklemore, she attempted to take selfies with me. Beautiful night and we kept the windows down :) . We stopped at Goodwill and she even found two tops and a pair of jeans! SCORE!

It has been a pretty darn good start to the weekend here!

[This message edited by LeftBehind08 at 11:50 PM, June 7th (Friday)]


Sometimes it's lonely, Sometimes it's only me & the shadows that fill this room...
But it's a great day to be alive & the sun still shines when I close my eyes ~Travis Tritt

Posts: 83 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Washington
Bombshell
Member
Member # 36058
Default  Posted: 12:06 AM, June 8th (Saturday)

TGIF and to a hot weekend (temperature expected to be 110) I took 6 year old granddaughter to Karate....it's a kick (Pardon the pun) and tomorrow going to watch 8 month-old granddaughter while her folks are out...and tonight I'm in communication with a new guy....who knows! Life is good and getter better!

[This message edited by Bombshell at 12:07 AM, June 8th (Saturday)]


Posts: 94 | Registered: Jul 2012
Nature_Girl
Member
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 12:10 AM, June 8th (Saturday)

Just spent time dancing with my kids to oldies on the radio, will head outside shortly to see the ISS as it passes over head!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9821 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
wildbananas
Member
Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 1:52 AM, June 8th (Saturday)

Saw bananagirl13 graduate from 8th grade. She had a rough year with ex-asshat and her grades really took a hit but she worked hard and pulled them up and graduated. So proud of her!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15413 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
h0peless
Member
Member # 36697
Default  Posted: 2:39 AM, June 8th (Saturday)

I got a new camera with a built in GPS and a few pictures I took and uploaded to Panoramio last weekend were approved to go on Google Earth. Obviously this makes me feel fairly important so I think I'll go out, take pictures of some more stuff and try to get more poorly composed pictures put up for everybody to see. :)

Other than that, I don't know what I'm doing. I might tear my motorcycle apart and replace all of the gaskets and seals so it stops leaking oil.


Posts: 1731 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
nutmegkitty
Member
Member # 33882
Default  Posted: 5:47 AM, June 8th (Saturday)

After 4 straight weekends of having the kiddos, they finally are back on their schedule of visiting the ex. I'm about to go to two yoga classes in a row. Then later a trip to Savers and a pedicure.
Tomorrow is more yoga and a nice lunch with a friend.
I soooooo need this kid free time.
Happy Weekend all - and GO BRUINS!


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2601 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
gahurts
Member
Member # 33699
Default  Posted: 8:42 AM, June 8th (Saturday)

So yesterday I bought a new for me Grand Caravan. 2003 with 68,000 miles on it and actually got it for only a couple hundred above the book value.

Today we have a church picnic for middle school teachers and their families and I may race in the sailing race this evening.

Tomorrow will be calm and rested before a week of church camp for/with the kids.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3432 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
TrustedHer
Member
Member # 23328
Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, June 8th (Saturday)

St. Louis Shakespeare Festival last night. Twelfth Night, outside, 5000 people in the audience. Biggest crowd ever, they said.

It was wonderful.

"Some people are born great, some achieve greatness, and some have greatness thrust upon them."


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5181 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
inconnu
Member
Member # 24518
Default  Posted: 11:47 AM, June 8th (Saturday)

Got up early this morning to take DS18 to a class, and the instructor was a no-show. Now I've lost all motivation I had to do anything but sit on the couch and surf the net. Yeah, not like there was a lot of motivation for anything else to begin with.

I think I'm going to head into the kitchen and do some de-constructing. Ugly light fixtures must go!


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12164 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
UnsettledOne
Member
Member # 32952
Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, June 8th (Saturday)

Vegitating..practice Star spankled banner on guitar...will go cycling...talk to a beautiful woman. Check out my blog for those who checked it out...talk to a beautiful woman...maybe do a little writing...talk to a beautiful woman...Sad in AZ not sure you want to live through me...


BH 60

Posts: 176 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Walking toward the light
phmh
Member
Member # 34146
Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, June 8th (Saturday)

Mostly studying for the last exam I have to take for work. It's really tough and I need to spend more time than I have been learning the boring material.

A couple of longish runs.

Baseball game tonight, along with tailgaiting. (No studying will get done then.)

Dinner with a friend tomorrow night. (Once again, no studying.)

Packing as I close on my house on Friday!!!

Looks like I might be taking this test again if I fail due to lack of studying


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny


Posts: 3404 | Registered: Dec 2011
fraeuken
Member
Member # 30742
Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, June 8th (Saturday)

Kid free time too, yeah! Don't get me wrong, love them to pieces but 5 days of uninterrupted me time is like a mini vacation.

Taught my last class yesterday and rewarded myself with some wine at the Yacht Club. Today is errand day.. and tomorrow morning I will see my 'special' friend at church at 10 and then we will head out to a fleemarket for treasure hunting. And hopefully the day will last forever ...


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
InTheRabbitHole
Member
Member # 19319
Default  Posted: 1:17 PM, June 8th (Saturday)

Had an awesome date last night. Nothing lined up for today other than get ready for my mom to visit. Surgery on Monday and then a quiet week recovering.

Posts: 202 | Registered: Apr 2008
tesla
Member
Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 1:42 PM, June 8th (Saturday)

@ WNY g2g!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4683 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Amazonia
Member
Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, June 8th (Saturday)

*poof* pictures

[This message edited by Amazonia at 8:30 AM, June 10th (Monday)]


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13797 | Registered: Jul 2011
inconnu
Member
Member # 24518
Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, June 8th (Saturday)

that's so cool, ama! did you run in a tutu?


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12164 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
Amazonia
Member
Member # 32810
Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, June 8th (Saturday)

yeah, I made them for my two friends and I to run in. They started white, now they're pink.

I'm trying to decide what to do with it...

*poof* picture

[This message edited by Amazonia at 8:30 AM, June 10th (Monday)]


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13797 | Registered: Jul 2011
InTheRabbitHole
Member
Member # 19319
Default  Posted: 5:29 PM, June 8th (Saturday)

Ama, looks like a great time!

Posts: 202 | Registered: Apr 2008
kernel
Member
Member # 27035
Default  Posted: 6:40 PM, June 8th (Saturday)

Sorry, Sad, nothing exciting going on for me. Mowed the lawn with the reel mower (stupid gas mower won't start) and did the weed eater thing. [Probably the one thing I really miss about X - he always did the lawn care]. Good exercise though I hate doing it. Treated myself to dinner out. Went for a walk along the lake, did laundry. Boring! Watching Monsters Inc and planning to do some recreational reading later.

Tomorrow more boring. It's supposed to rain (again) so more laundry, balancing the checkbook, grocery shopping, maybe go to a movie, spend some time on the elliptical since the rain will keep me indoors.

I need to get life sometime soon, but feeling fairly lazy about it!

[This message edited by kernel at 6:41 PM, June 8th (Saturday)]


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5243 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
click4it
Member
Member # 209
Default  Posted: 6:05 PM, June 9th (Sunday)

Went swimming in 100 degree weather. Danced a few songs to 80's music in the wee hours of the night. Ate protein bars. Good times.


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25628 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
tryingagain74
Member
Member # 33698
Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, June 9th (Sunday)

Had a wonderful g2g this weekend... it was super fun. I miss everyone already!


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3620 | Registered: Oct 2011
Sad in AZ
Member
Member # 24239
Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, June 9th (Sunday)

I did go to yoga and the beach, and I did some grocery shopping, so I wasn't a total slug


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20281 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
thyme2go
Member
Member # 12908
Default  Posted: 12:44 AM, June 10th (Monday)

I am currently in Oceanside, California getting ready for Race Across America.

-t2g


BH - no longer 48
3 DD's - (27, 24 and 17)
Divorced on 8/6/09

Posts: 9188 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: Eastern Washington
Topic Posts: 26