I am never one to celebrate the misfortune of others. That's not my thing. I'm always the one amongst friends and family that tries to see the other side of things and always gives people the benefit of the doubt. Am I perfect? No...but for the most part I'm nice....unless you eff with me.
Well after 3 months of doing what we all do...obsessing about the OW, having revenge fantasies, having feelings of injustice because the OW gets to go on with her shitty little life unscathed while WH and I are drudging through the aftermath of the A Tsunami...well the Karma bus has actually hit and I couldn't be happier.
This weekend I had some nice interactions with the WS. He is reading what I've asked him to read, he is spending more time with me, actually talking about his shame/guilt, going to MC and actually talking. I see some progress....he isn't the KISA that I kept thinking would show up, but I sense and feel real remorse and some glimmer of empathy from his part. I see a desire to try to make things right. I take it all in with a grain of salt.
Well clearly it hasn't stopped me from checking on the OW. I googled her last night and the most amazing thing popped up...A MUG SHOT!!!!!! A horrible mug shot with black mascara stains running down her toughened leatherlike face. Awww, poor baby. (BTW, she has two other mugshots online from her past, this one is from just a few weeks ago.....yay!!!!)
Ok, let's see...who should I thank? First off...I'd like to thank....the State of Georgia for posting your mugshots online. Thank you to everyone on SI who says don't contact or seek revenge on the OW because she just isn't worth it. Thank you to the Universe for restoring a sense of balance in the world. Thank you to me for googling the B and checking on her ....it finally paid off.
Ok, I'm being sarcastic, I hate for other people to be in pain or to suffer...but she got busted with a DUI and that is her fault, not mine. The really awesomely atrocious mugshot is also her fault, she is an ugly trashhole after all.
So as I take a victory lap in my head, I do realize that she isn't the one who betrayed me or ignored her marriage vows...she wasn't married to me. But let this be a lesson to all the trifling hoes out there. Karma is a B and when you mess with me, so am I.