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FaithFool
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Cool  Posted: 2:53 PM, June 10th (Monday)

Signing off on the condo sale in about an hour.

NB :: NB :: NB

Then I don't know what I'll do with myself. Favourite pub is around the corner, is it too early to start drinking?


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17390 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
cass
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Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, June 10th (Monday)

It's never too early and right now I'm raising my glass to you - well it is 9pm here

Well done and here's to a bright future.


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:14 PM, June 10th (Monday)

YAY!!!!!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 3:14 PM, June 10th (Monday)

Thanks darlin. Wish I was there raising it with you!

I'd make you a bacon and avocado sandwich.

[This message edited by FaithFool at 3:16 PM, June 10th (Monday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17390 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, June 10th (Monday)

Awesome!!

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cass
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, June 10th (Monday)

And I'd make you a haggis and turnip one


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4965 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
fallingquickly
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Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, June 10th (Monday)

Wow!!! Congratulations!


Me-BW 50
Him-STBXWH

2 Ddays and lots of TT
divorcing

Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken


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gma56
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Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, June 10th (Monday)

WooHoo !

Well you can say you are mortgage free !!
Celebrate !
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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MyVoice
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Default  Posted: 4:45 PM, June 10th (Monday)


Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

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risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 5:38 PM, June 10th (Monday)

Yeah!!!
I am so happy for you!
You have come so far.
Take time to reflect (between sips of your beverage of choice) on how you traveled this hard horrible road and found out just how strong you are!
Now you can enjoy the beauty around you.

[This message edited by risingfromashes at 5:40 PM, June 10th (Monday)]


There is life on the other side of hell.

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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 7:01 PM, June 10th (Monday)

Yay!! A toast to you. Hope you are celebrating it and relishing it.

NB chanting commences!!


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, June 10th (Monday)

Thanks guys! I'm enjoying a cold one and waiting for the boys to deliver the new cabinet (second hand) that I bought on Saturday.

It's teak laminate to match my bookshelf and big table, fits the corner space exactly and has glass doors so I have a place to show off my antique cameras and glass.

Now I'm cruising MLS and daydreaming about my next investment....



DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17390 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:37 PM, June 10th (Monday)

Congrats! Your new place looks.....quaint!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 7:48 PM, June 10th (Monday)

double

[This message edited by FaithFool at 9:04 AM, June 11th (Tuesday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17390 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, June 10th (Monday)

I would need a crew to come and blow it out, put in a deck and, uh, maybe a bathroom...

But it's on a half acre of sweet meadow on a beautiful hippie island and I could get it for cash!

(It's actually just an old outbuilding on bare land, they are not seriously selling it as living space LOL.)


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17390 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, June 10th (Monday)

I'd live in it! (But I'd need a full-sized house to store my yarn & fabric... )

Congratulations!


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, June 10th (Monday)

Where is stronger when you need him?

Shoot, now it's a beautiful evening out there, my cabinet's been delivered and I'm on my third beer.

All I feel like doing is couch surfing and having another bacon sandwich, maybe read and watch Netflix till it's bedtime.

Is that wrong?


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17390 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
tesla
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Default  Posted: 10:19 PM, June 10th (Monday)

Congrats Faith!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, June 10th (Monday)

Is that wrong?
Sounds exactly right to me, FF. Enjoy!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 11:20 PM, June 10th (Monday)

Thanks NIK! Time for bed... Back to work tomorrow. Weekend's over.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17390 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 1:12 AM, June 11th (Tuesday)

Raising my glass to you as well. Congratulations condo owner!!!


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

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wonderingbull
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Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, June 11th (Tuesday)

You say that little out building is on a hippy island?

What has always amazed me when I've been sailing in the San Juans and the Gulf Islands is the size of some of the houses on small/tiny islands... They're fricken huge! Then you see small little shacks that people are living in that look like glorified out houses...

WB


The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...

James Taylor


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 9:01 AM, June 11th (Tuesday)

@ freuken: I just sold my condo to get outta downtown, now I'm a renter again in a much nicer neighbourhood. It will do for now.

@ WB: yes, those "cottages" people build are ridiculous. This little piece of history is what people used to build as a summer place on the islands.

Back in the 40s probably.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17390 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
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