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eyenight
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Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, June 10th (Monday)

I ended up working from 3pm yesterday until 8am today. I was going to go over to my guys house after I was done at midnight but someone called in and I had to cover the next shift. Boyfriend brought me coffee and some food he made and went to pick up son from the sitter so I didn't have to pay her extra. I went over to guyshhouse after work and he made me breakfast. He took care of son while I slept and got all my stuff from my place so I could get ready for work at his place and I could sleep a little longer. He even checked in on my mom cause I wasn't home. And brought her breakfast. Wow he took a load off me today. Never had this before. He actually thought of me for a change. He is so good with son. Son loves him a lot.

Posts: 128 | Registered: Jun 2013
MyVoice
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Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, June 10th (Monday)

aww that's so sweet, lucky you xx


Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

Posts: 469 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Australia
Take2
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Default  Posted: 4:49 PM, June 10th (Monday)

Sounds like a keeper eyenight!

Ohhh!!! We should clone him!!


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4112 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
persevere
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Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, June 10th (Monday)

Sounds like a good start.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4436 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 1:34 AM, June 11th (Tuesday)

Sounds like a keeper. That is what it is supposed to be. Happy for you!


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1246 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
eyenight
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Member # 39488
Default  Posted: 12:22 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)

Yeah super lucky he and I had a long talk last night about everything. Like more about getting to know and me getting to know him. Pretty awesome

Posts: 128 | Registered: Jun 2013
Housefulloflove
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Member # 38458
Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, June 14th (Friday)

Woah..guys like that exist!?


Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

Posts: 541 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
eyenight
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Member # 39488
Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, June 15th (Saturday)

And I found him. Well he found me.

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exhausted lady
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Member # 30217
Default  Posted: 9:26 AM, June 15th (Saturday)

Yes, guys like this DO exist and I'm sooo happy one of them found you. One of them recently found me too and I'm still pinching myself to make sure I'm not dreaming.

Don't pinch yourself it leaves bruises! Enjoy that "cared for" feeling eyenight.


Sometimes the hardest part of finally seeing through someone is accepting what you see...

God grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change, the courage to
change the one I can, and the wisdom to know it's me.
-Reinhold Neibuhr


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