WH and I have been doing great. We're in MC every 3 weeks now - he's (seemingly) really trying to get to the core of why his first instinct is to lie.
Sunday morning he had a very long chat with his mom (he told her about the A's right after Dday). No need for me to go into detail, but he admitted some things to her he never did before, and I can imagine she was pretty surprised.
He was all worked up when he got off the phone - I guess worried he'd really upset his mom. I think she's probably relieved he opened up, and I told him that. I also told him how proud I was of him for it - and we had a great day after that. Well, except we had a few too many cocktails on the patio after some yardwork.
And so the both of us woke up feeling pretty hungover (drinks on Sundays? Yeah - bad idea!) but off to work we went.
We texted back and forth through the day, nothing out of the ordinary. He mentioned that he felt awful - we didn't eat much on Sunday which didn't help the gin and tonics. So I wasn't shocked that I found him already in bed when I got home. I went up, kissed him hello, and asked what time he left work. He told me 4:00pm. I left him be and settled myself downstairs. I noticed that he had his laptop next to the bed, again, not unusual.
But, for some reason, I felt the need to check my keylogger , which I check maybe once every week or 2 these days. So I log on, there he is, logged on at 11:33am...WTF?
I got that sick feeling I haven't had in months. Why wouldn't he just tell me he left early? According to the keylogger, he'd been online off and on since 11:30, mostly FB, his usual news and sports sites, and bigtits.com (which he knows I know about).
Call me dumb, but I don't think he left early to have some sort of romp with anyone - unless he had one hand on the keyboard while he was...nevermind. Also, he looked like hell and had plates and crumpled napkins on the floor. I honestly think he felt crappy, left work, got in bed with laptop and some snacks and that's about it.
But WHY LIE ABOUT IT?
Don't see myself keeping my mouth shut about this till we go back to MC next week. Do I confront him tonight? I'm not going to tell him how I know, obviously.