How does it feel to be affectionate with your WH? A: I only do it when I feel it and I feel it a lot. I also feel like screaming sometimes too but save that for private.
What do you want? A: I don't know yet and I think that is part of the issue. Maybe that until I DECIDE (versus staying married by default until we are a bit further along) then my family thinks I should be shunning him?
What feels authentic? A: authentic is my mantra these days and I think I am doing a pretty good job
Do you want your WH to talk with your family and tell them what he did and how thankful he is to be married to you? A: He did this. My mom thinks I need to just forgive him and get over it, but my brother has SO SO SO much anger but very much avoids confrontation, so when WH went to chat with him he (my brother) took it pretty easy on him.