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OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 9:45 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)

I'll spill the beans in a few days, but for now a little good luck would be very welcome.

And no, it's nothing to do with dating (still staying away from that).


BH, now divorced

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seekingright2013
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Default  Posted: 9:51 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)

***good mojo coming your way**


BSO, 53
exWSO, who cares
DD: 11/18/12
DD2: 11/21/12
Kicked him to the curb 11/21/12
“I tramp a perpetual journey.”
― Walt Whitman, Song of Myself

Posts: 116 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Red State SE US
persevere
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Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)

Good luck!


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:09 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)

Good luck!

[This message edited by jo2love at 10:09 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)]


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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 10:18 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)

Good luck!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)

Good luck!


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 10:24 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)

Luck!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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tesla
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Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)

Lots of luck!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:41 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)

Lucky mojo!!!


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 11:13 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)

Good luck!

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PanicAttack53
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Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)

Good luck!


Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 60 | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle

Posts: 868 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Midwest
torn2bits
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, June 12th (Wednesday)

Go get'em OIAL!

I'm sure it will be good!


Me: 44/WH (SA): 49
M: 24 years 3 kids over 10 yrs old
EA/ PA Dec. 2009 -Divorce pending

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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 12:36 PM, June 12th (Wednesday)

It's all comin' at ya!

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


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cmego
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, June 12th (Wednesday)

Good luck! Keep us posted


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4015 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Virginia
gma56
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Default  Posted: 2:38 PM, June 12th (Wednesday)

This must be a big one !

Good Luck and mojo being sent.
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. I lost my family but gained a second chance to be happy.

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NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 3:18 PM, June 12th (Wednesday)

Sending positive vibes your way.....


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 15097 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
kernel
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, June 12th (Wednesday)

Good luck to you - sending mojo!!!


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% - and that's pretty good."

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gardenparty
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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, June 12th (Wednesday)

Lots of luck, SI mojo and hugs to you!


divorced!

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OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 9:51 AM, June 13th (Thursday)

Well, bummer. XW and I put the marital home on the market this spring, as was stipulated by the divorce settlement. I've been eager to finally get my share of the equity in the home.

Well, in this hot sellers market, the house just languished. We finally got an offer, but they backed out for no good reason after the inspection (the inspection didn't reveal anything major, but in this state you can always back out).

So, what to do. Maybe take the house off the market, because it's getting stale.

Sigh.


BH, now divorced

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risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 10:14 AM, June 13th (Thursday)

Your agent should follow up with them and find out exactly why they backed out. They were willing to incur the cost of the inspection.


There is life on the other side of hell.

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nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 10:54 AM, June 13th (Thursday)

DARN!

I agree with Rising. Might be worth finding out and seeing if it's something you can address.


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:55 AM, June 13th (Thursday)

((((OIAL)))) Sending you all kinds of house mojo. I understand the stress of this more than I'd care to!


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, June 25th (Tuesday)

You guys outdid yourselves. That deal fell through, but another offer came along for a lot more money.

Hee hee. Happy dance

Thank you, SI mojo masters!


BH, now divorced

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 10:11 AM, June 25th (Tuesday)


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, June 25th (Tuesday)

Woo hoo!!!


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, June 25th (Tuesday)


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gma56
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Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, June 25th (Tuesday)


Mojo for a quick closing !


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. I lost my family but gained a second chance to be happy.

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little turtle
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Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, June 25th (Tuesday)

That's awesome news!!


Failure is success if we learn from it.

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nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, June 25th (Tuesday)

SWEET!!!!


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2568 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, June 25th (Tuesday)

Awesome!


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, June 25th (Tuesday)

Never underestimate the power of our mojo!


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, June 26th (Wednesday)

So excited for you! I predict once the energy of this house/money frees up the dating and relationship energy will free up too. I just see energy that way.


BS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. dating again, living in the sticks with a cat. It's taking a long time to create new dreams and a new life but it is slowly coming together.

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OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, June 27th (Thursday)

Yeah!!!!! Purchase and Sale, SIGNED!!!!!

For a lot more than the offer that fell through

Happy happy joy joy

You guys worked some serious mojo!

ETA: now just a wee bit more, please, to hold me through mortgage contingency and closing...

[This message edited by OnceInALifetime at 5:13 PM, June 27th (Thursday)]


BH, now divorced

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 5:39 PM, June 27th (Thursday)

SI Mojo is the best

Congrats OIAL!


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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cass
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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, June 27th (Thursday)


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, June 27th (Thursday)

Mojo on it's way...


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, June 27th (Thursday)

Congrats OIAL.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, June 27th (Thursday)


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, June 27th (Thursday)

Closing mojo!


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, June 27th (Thursday)

WTG, OIAL!! Mojo and best for a speedy closing.

We need a video of the happy dance!!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 11:49 PM, June 27th (Thursday)

Awesome, O!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15360 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 6:14 AM, June 29th (Saturday)

We need a video of the happy dance!!

[This message edited by gahurts at 6:26 AM, June 29th (Saturday)]


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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