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Sad in AZ
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Member # 24239
Wink  Posted: 3:23 PM, June 12th (Wednesday)

Yup; it's d-day antiversary time and life is pretty good Not where I want to be but not too shabby either. I've made lots of good friends because of this debacle--I call that a win. Newbies will hopefully come to understand the power of SI.

Thank you, SI, and thank you friends.


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20035 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
gma56
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Member # 19595
Default  Posted: 3:26 PM, June 12th (Wednesday)


You survived the storm, that my friend is huge !
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20368 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
lieshurt
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Member # 14003
Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, June 12th (Wednesday)


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


Posts: 13724 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
Chrysalis123
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Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, June 12th (Wednesday)


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

Posts: 2651 | Registered: Jan 2010
stronggirl72
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Member # 37293
Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, June 12th (Wednesday)

Thank you. I really needed to read this tonight. I'm a bit less than two years out, and am looking for the day when the pain is behind me and I can say that life is good. Until then, I'll settle for 'getting by.'

I am so happy for you!!


"Taking the high road, and doing it with class."

DIVORCED!!


Posts: 154 | Registered: Oct 2012
wildbananas
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Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 10:49 PM, June 12th (Wednesday)


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15383 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
OnceInALifetime
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Member # 26023
Default  Posted: 10:54 PM, June 12th (Wednesday)

You rock


BH, now divorced

Posts: 3012 | Registered: Oct 2009
HappilyUnMarried
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Member # 21299
Default  Posted: 11:08 PM, June 12th (Wednesday)

Awesome!


True happiness comes from within, not from someone else.† Donít make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and make you happy

Posts: 1291 | Registered: Oct 2008
InnerLight
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Member # 19946
Default  Posted: 11:39 PM, June 12th (Wednesday)

Yay Saz!


BS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. dating again, living in the sticks with a cat. It's taking a long time to create new dreams and a new life but it is slowly coming together.

Posts: 5798 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
click4it
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Member # 209
Default  Posted: 11:59 PM, June 12th (Wednesday)


Me: 41
Two boys: 17 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25509 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
WhiteWolfWinning
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Member # 12475
Default  Posted: 12:00 AM, June 13th (Thursday)

Good for you, SAZZY!


Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God

Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens


Posts: 8233 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: midwest
FaithFool
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Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 12:01 AM, June 13th (Thursday)

Right behind you.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17341 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
persevere
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Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 12:42 AM, June 13th (Thursday)

Awesome post SAZ! I'm at 2 1/2 years from DDay (yesterday) and doing way better than I was progressively, and the SI folks are a constant inspiration.

Thank you for that lady!


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4471 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
luv2swim
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Member # 13154
Default  Posted: 1:50 AM, June 13th (Thursday)

SWEET!
So glad to hear that you have joined the winners circle!


Me: BS
Him: NPD WS
Married 24 years
incredible kids
D day: 2006 ... he left to live with OW.
Divorced: 2009
WS + OW: Married 2011

Posts: 351 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: US
Heartless Bytchh
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Member # 12347
Default  Posted: 4:51 AM, June 13th (Thursday)

Oh you are definitely a winner. A top notch blue ribbon winner.
(((SAZZY)))


Woodchipper pretty much trumps everything.-Rufus Turner
Sometimes I feel like SI is that person who says... "if you can't say anything nice... come sit by me!"-rumorhasit

Posts: 6063 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: Another day in Paradise
NaiveAgain
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Member # 20849
Default  Posted: 5:36 AM, June 13th (Thursday)


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 15194 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
nutmegkitty
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Member # 33882
Default  Posted: 10:55 AM, June 13th (Thursday)

I love reading these posts


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2589 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
wonderingbull
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Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, June 13th (Thursday)

WB


The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...

James Taylor


Posts: 5969 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: A better place
TrulyReconciled
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Member # 3031
Default  Posted: 2:10 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

"Sazzy" ... I kinda like that


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 21040 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
FaithFool
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Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 8:18 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

Isn't that the name of Sheldon's cat? ^^^


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17341 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Sad in AZ
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Member # 24239
Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

That would be Zazzy


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20035 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
ajsmom
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Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, June 14th (Friday)

That would be Zazzy

And it fits you!

Awesome reminder for us all!

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21041 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
traicionada
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Member # 10310
Default  Posted: 12:05 PM, June 16th (Sunday)

Wow! 6 years! Time sure flies when we are having fun


Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

Posts: 3288 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Dallas, Texas
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, June 16th (Sunday)

Yay!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25061 | Registered: Aug 2011
tryingagain74
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Member # 33698
Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, June 16th (Sunday)

Thanks for the hope-- I can always use an extra dose of it!


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3575 | Registered: Oct 2011
heartbroken_kk
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Member # 22722
Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, June 17th (Monday)


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1126 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
Crescita
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Member # 32616
Default  Posted: 11:09 AM, June 17th (Monday)

Love it and love the new moniker Sazzy!

Posts: 3344 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
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