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stillsad1970
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Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, June 13th (Thursday)

Seperated 3 months and finally feeling like a sexual being again, and NOT with WH. Is there a time line for this or does this happen and I should expect guilt or a set back? I dont want to slut around but the though sure feels good.

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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, June 13th (Thursday)

Are you planning on divorcing first? I feel its important to have some solid ground under you before you start exploring.

[This message edited by Deeply Scared at 10:30 AM, June 13th (Thursday)]


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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stillsad1970
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Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, June 13th (Thursday)

Yes, legally seperated and he is with OW,i have my own condo Joint custody.I just dont want our son whos 14 to know . His dad is a smuck for this.

Posts: 77 | Registered: Apr 2013
stillsad1970
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Member # 38977
Default  Posted: 10:47 AM, June 13th (Thursday)

Yes, legally seperated and he is with OW,i have my own condo Joint custody.I just dont want our son whos 14 to know . His dad is a smuck for this.

Posts: 77 | Registered: Apr 2013
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

Oops. Sorry. Just realizing I was a fool to jump in....

[This message edited by sisoon at 4:00 PM, June 13th (Thursday)]


fBH (me) - 70, fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

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