User Topic: After a very hard week...
Member # 39313
Default  Posted: 2:33 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

I think we are finally here.

I am emotionally and physically drained. I had some very extremely stressful events.

But after all of the bullshit has been cleared out and our hearts were emptied we both realized our brokenness. We are moving forward. Together.

I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

Posts: 361 | Registered: May 2013
Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

(((hugs))) I hope that from this point on, you two get better and better.

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

Posts: 4949 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Member # 36634
Default  Posted: 4:03 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

Glad you are working through it together. ((hugs))

Me: 44 BS
Married 12 yrs
True R: 12/2012
4kids(11, 8, 5, 4mos)+ 2 Step kids I love like my own

Posts: 315 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Georgia
Member # 38924
Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, June 14th (Friday)

Good. It's a long, hard journey.

Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,Recovering Alcoholic, M6yrs T13. Boys 2 & 4 1/2.
DDay #1 Nov,2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan,2014
Filed for D Feb,2014.

Posts: 962 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: So Cal, baby. :)
Member # 37168
Default  Posted: 12:02 PM, June 14th (Friday)

Good luck and well done. It is tough. Keep in there. You will have ups and downs, but if you are both committed to the R and work on it together, when you have a difficult day (and there will be many, if you are like the rest of us) remember how good you feel now, remember that it can get better and tune yourself back to the good days and what made them good. that will help you get through the bad times.

Posts: 266 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: UK
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