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stillsad1970
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Default  Posted: 8:07 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

Ok,cant hide it anymore haven't found a post for this yet. Do any WS now, finally , just want to go have sex with someone you want to fuck now! Other than WS ?

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gma56
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Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

If it's an exit ons/fwb, not usually a good idea. Most BS have enough drama without having more to deal with. It won't make you feel better more than a few hours.
I did have exit A after separating from my 1st XH but I was young and dumb back then. The relationship lasted until my D was final then I moved on.


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20368 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
idkam
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Default  Posted: 9:54 AM, June 14th (Friday)

Still i had to Lol at ur post.... Shoot me and my ex were together for 10 yrs i couldnt wait to try 'something New'..... It was delicianos ...
All 6'2 220#'s of it.....

Mmmm Hmmm!


People come into your life for a Reason, Season or a Lifetime..
Divorced

Posts: 1783 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: Texas
TattoodChinaDoll
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, June 14th (Friday)

Stillsad, I'm a little confused. Did you mean to say do any BS want to have sex with someone other than their WS?

As someone who is headed to divorce and my new beginning so far is just realizing that I can have way better than how I've been treated, at this point I think about it but not crave it. I'm not sexually crazed at this point...ask me again when I've been on the bus longer. I might have a wayyyyy different answer!

[This message edited by TattoodChinaDoll at 10:46 AM, June 14th (Friday)]


Me (BW): 32
WH: 33 TimeToManUp
Married: 11 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 9, 5, 2, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011

Posts: 1719 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
veelop5
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Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, June 14th (Friday)

Hell yes!!!!


ME-38
XH-40
3 beautiful boys (20,19 & 15)
Update: Moved in to my own apartment 8/7/2012
Divorce final 3/27/2013

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Spitfire77
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Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, June 14th (Friday)

Yup! So far I've managed to resist temptation because I know I'm not ready, but it's tough sometimes.


BW (Me): 32
WH (Him): 32
Married: Dec. 04
Two kids, 6 & 4
Divorce will be final 26 SEP 13

Posts: 305 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Someplace I'd rather not be.
SBB
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Default  Posted: 3:07 AM, June 15th (Saturday)

Yes.... pretty much anyone but the WS.

idkam, We use the metric system in Australia but I have recently had cause to add 6'6" to my vocabulary....

They were 2 different measurements in my old life... and the second number was lower!

[This message edited by StrongButBroken at 3:08 AM, June 15th (Saturday)]


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

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Helen of Troy
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Target  Posted: 2:33 PM, June 15th (Saturday)

Invest in a quality B.O.B.
Always disease free, no pregnancy risk, nor emotional messes!

Posts: 4693 | Registered: Dec 2009
sparklingwater
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Member # 38792
Default  Posted: 7:43 AM, June 16th (Sunday)

Yes! My relationship came to an abrupt end. My x had a low libido (for IRL sex), preferring his internet fantasies over the real thing, so quite frankly I was craving a good roll in the hay.


Newly single and trying to find my feet.

There's always light at the end of the tunnel, just pray it's not a train.


Posts: 104 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Australia
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 8:17 AM, June 16th (Sunday)

Invest in a quality B.O.B.

I'd like to take this moment to endorse the brand Lelo, keeping Ama on the right side of sanity since 2011.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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She11ybeanz
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Funny  Posted: 8:30 AM, June 16th (Sunday)

Invest in a quality B.O.B.
Always disease free, no pregnancy risk, nor emotional messes!

This is my secret... or better yet.....invest in 3 or 4... (I like variety!)

Its definitely a bus-saver! Been on the bus over a year now.....and going strong....and going and going and going


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


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fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 12:06 PM, June 16th (Sunday)

Oh boy, yes, I was so neglected as a woman during the time leading up to separation. Did not give into the temptation though and had some great bonding experiences with my personal variety of 'bus-savers'.

Got off the bus just recently with a wonderful guy and can't get enough at this point. Got some years to make up.. he does not seem to mind


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

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idkam
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Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, June 17th (Monday)

Strong

Mmmm hmmm!


People come into your life for a Reason, Season or a Lifetime..
Divorced

Posts: 1783 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: Texas
stillsad1970
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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, June 17th (Monday)

Awesome replys. Sorry BS looking for "it" not WS. Thank you for the laughs,nice to do that today,calls and texts from ex. Awwwwww, new gf not that great? Sorry but its about me and my boy now.

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