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gma56
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Wink  Posted: 8:28 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

Just something to think about if you are considering being a cougar. I guess it could work the same for men seeking much younger women.
It made me giggle.

[This message edited by gma56 at 8:28 PM, June 13th (Thursday)]


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Default  Posted: 8:36 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

Oy...


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to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 8:39 PM, June 13th (Thursday)


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


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gma56
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Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

Confession: it makes me giggle because I'm finishing my 2nd glass of really good wine.

Ah, come on FF, you know how much you want the 25 yr old guy sitting next to you in class.

Some of the guys I work with love to tease me about it's time to look for a younger model because FT was so much older. No, not this old lady. A little younger would be fine but not younger than my DD !!!
That's my boundary line and I'm sticking to it.


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

Oh Jeez Louise, I spend all day dealing with them over the counter at the college....

Some are quite swoon-worthy I must say, but I can't imagine going there in reality.

That's why they invented fantasy!


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gma56
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Default  Posted: 9:05 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

That's why they invented fantasy
I agree !


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inhishands55
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Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

Well, the guy I am seeing is younger than me..I might be considered a cougar..I am not old enough to be his mother and I didn't go to school with his father or mother...

When you reach a certain age, age is just a number...I wouldn't see someone in their 20's or 30's..,,,But 40's is just fine with me and I am in my 50's...

He makes me laugh and we have a very good time together...He has kids and mine is grown...We make each other happy and that is all that matters....


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Hope24
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Default  Posted: 9:21 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

I just saw that on Facebook tonight.


She packed up her potential and all she had learned and headed out to change a few things.

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click4it
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Default  Posted: 9:22 PM, June 13th (Thursday)


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

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risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

I do not feel like a cougar. We are clear that we really care for each other but NO way is there any future. I am 53 and he is 35. In addition he is so ADD I would be his mother and he would resent me like a teenager.

But I really like him and he feels the same.

I just feel happy and lucky!
Hope I did not ruin the purpose of this post!


There is life on the other side of hell.

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gma56
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Default  Posted: 10:33 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

But 40's is just fine with me and I am in my 50's...

That is about my younger age limit too. Mid 40s. My DD will be 40 in two weeks, that icks me if I was dating someone her age. That's just me.
Gma


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persevere
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Default  Posted: 10:35 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

Funny gma!


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gma56
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Default  Posted: 11:38 PM, June 13th (Thursday)

just saw that on Facebook tonight.
I did too and the last line made me chuckle because I get told so much this should be my next path....cougar.

Maybe ????


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click4it
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Default  Posted: 1:23 AM, June 14th (Friday)

I went to lunch someone a few weeks ago who said they were a recovering cougar.

I laughed my ass off. First time I heard of that.


Me: 42
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d-day 10-02-01

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gma56
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Default  Posted: 11:17 AM, June 14th (Friday)

who said they were a recovering cougar
I didn't know this was something we have to recover from !!

Definitely need to rethink.
Gma

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Crescita
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Default  Posted: 11:50 AM, June 14th (Friday)

My sister used to joke about wanting to be a cougar, but as she was only 30 she would have to settle for being a puma. Well I really wanted to post this to her facebook last night, but she is currently in a relationship with a man in his 50s so it didnít seem apt.

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Done_withThePain
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Default  Posted: 2:38 AM, June 15th (Saturday)

I went younger but it just happened- and we are as happy as I could have never imagined sometimes you just have to take the other for who they are not just a number

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Default  Posted: 6:42 AM, June 16th (Sunday)


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