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selkiescot
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Member # 23777
Default  Posted: 3:24 PM, June 14th (Friday)

I have not been on Wh's key logger in a while. Just lost interest and figured let him hang himself and of course he did.
it looks like he might be in contact with the first OW again. IS he REALLY that stupid. She has a very distinctive polish name and it came up on the keylogger 3 times this week. I am the point I just want the damn house to sell so I can move on. I don't get it. I thought there might have been a glimpse of hope last week but then I should know better. DISGUSTED!


The truth shall set you free or reveal the name of the OW!
ME 57
WH 64
DDAYs TOO MANY
daughter 27
You give me gifts! I don't want your gifts I want the truth. That's the greatest gift.

Posts: 1402 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: CT
Razor
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Member # 16345
Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, June 14th (Friday)

Sometimes the smartest and sanest thing you can do is to give up and walk away. To keep hoping and wishing for your WH to change will just drive you crazy.


Forgive and forget = Relive and regret.

Hope in reality is the worst of all evils because it prolongs the torments of man.
Friedrich Nietzsche


Posts: 3483 | Registered: Sep 2007
simplydevastated
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Member # 25001
Default  Posted: 3:37 PM, June 14th (Friday)

Oh selkie, I'm so sorry to hear to this.

Sending you strength and lots of (((hugs)))


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
meplusfour
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Member # 38958
Default  Posted: 3:37 PM, June 14th (Friday)

((selkiescot))

Walk away with grace and dignity.


BW (me)42
WH 44
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
In R
"Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to the way they used to be."

Posts: 387 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Canada
solus sto
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Member # 30989
Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, June 14th (Friday)

((selkie)) I'm so sorry.


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 53, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 8852 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
AgainandAgain
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Member # 34835
Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, June 14th (Friday)

I'm so sorry to hear this. I've been there so I know how it feels. It is so frustrating when they just don't get it. I've been there, done that and you never truly get used to it. I too wanted to just leave because it's never going to change but it did.

(((((((HUGS)))))))


Posts: 232 | Registered: Feb 2012
selkiescot
Member
Member # 23777
Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, June 16th (Sunday)

Thanks all for your kind comments. I am feeling very frustrated. The house is not selling and I'm stuck. BLECK


The truth shall set you free or reveal the name of the OW!
ME 57
WH 64
DDAYs TOO MANY
daughter 27
You give me gifts! I don't want your gifts I want the truth. That's the greatest gift.

Posts: 1402 | Registered: Apr 2009 | From: CT
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 10:06 AM, June 16th (Sunday)

((((selkie)))) Sending you tons of "sell that house" mojo so you can move on. Hugs honey.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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