User Topic: My Bff husband just left her
Member # 22386
Default  Posted: 6:07 PM, June 14th (Friday)

...for OW.

I am F*cking sick. I am sick and tired of cheaters destroying good people and entire families.

Two children.

Posts: 7591 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 6:08 PM, June 14th (Friday)

(((ann & bff)))

Posts: 35875 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 35215
Default  Posted: 6:37 PM, June 14th (Friday)

I hope the WS and OW rot in hell. May your Bff live her life to the fullest now

BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08, 5/09, 3/30/12
Final Dday 7/11/14 Affair never ended

Posts: 2266 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
Member # 36983
Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, June 14th (Friday)

((((annb))) and to your friend as well.

"She stood in the storm, and when the wind did not blow her way, she adjusted her sails" (Elizabeth Edwards).
Forever Conditionally Detached

Posts: 503 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Pittsburgh, PA
Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, June 14th (Friday)

(((((((annb and BFF)))))))

I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5264 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Member # 34835
Default  Posted: 8:50 PM, June 14th (Friday)

I'm SO sorry. Does she have anyone there with her? I'd be beside myself. Prayers and hugs to her!!

Posts: 231 | Registered: Feb 2012
Member # 20547
Default  Posted: 11:01 AM, June 15th (Saturday)

This happened to my Bff, right after my FWH and I decided to R. She had just had twins. I was even more devastated, and I hated FWH all over again.

(((annb & Bff)))

BS- me.
FWS- him.
DDay 6/07 (immediately separated)
RDay 8/07
OC born 3/08
OC Adopted 2014


Posts: 2312 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: PNW
Member # 36654
Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, June 15th (Saturday)

(((annb and BFF))). I am so sorry for your friend. Please share SI with her and be there for her. She is lucky to have you as you understand her pain and will be able to help her navigate through this hard time.

M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, June 15th (Saturday)

(((annb and bff)))

Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."

Posts: 38018 | Registered: Sep 2007
Member # 38561
Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, June 15th (Saturday)

So sorry to hear. Please connect her with SI and the wonderful people here.

ME - A new person
HER - A waining memory
DDay - 2/22/2013
2-3 month EA/PA
Together for 6 years, ready to start my life . . .

"I can fill the flask up, but can't get past us
I'm in the storm, staying strong, but can't get back

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