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stillsad1970
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Default  Posted: 6:10 PM, June 17th (Monday)

What kind of man takes his son out with ow shopping on fathers day? Oh ya , the same man who tells his son on his sons birthday that he doesn't want to be married anymore. Shits going down! His work knows about his affair because a resident,retirement home, told the GM that she was disgusted about these 2 because he's a married man. H and Ow are management. All respect lost, bitter here, nope, losers. Way too hot, that was the issue, insecure H. I have never seen a person dig their claws in for dear life like this before,wow . I feel good, especially since he has called2 x today and text. I would never go back. I feel liberated

Posts: 77 | Registered: Apr 2013
Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 8:01 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)

I feel glad for you, Still Sad! I'm trying to reach that point and I know all the wretched things STBX has done, but I still cry. IC says it's anger at him failing our M and life and continuing to wreak havoc on things.

Yes, I think Perv lost a job based in large part on the A, like your WH may. It was a place run by a single family and very, very family oriented, so I think computer porn wouldn't go over too well? and the other things he did.

One person I saw dig her claws in is Perv's OW, the one interaction I had with her was a text she sent throwing him under the bus and was all in my face about his awful life and M she was going to "fix". Really?

His respect is gone also, from anyone he knows here and he's trying desparately to be Model Citizen Perv again and helping anyone who will let him. I try in vain to the point of exhaustion not to ask or let him know I need help, for I don't want him working off his guilt, do you know what I mean?

Good for you, never going back and knowing your threshold or boundaries.


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


Posts: 2287 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
Take2
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Default  Posted: 12:23 AM, June 20th (Thursday)

Sometimes, if you listen very hard you can hear the Karma bus revving it's engine - before it accelerates Beep beep dickwad!


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

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