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Douchebagfree
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Member # 39267
Default  Posted: 6:33 PM, June 17th (Monday)

The big move is done :)
I was supposed to meet him last Saturday to drop off the keys for the new owners, we ach have a set. I figured why put myself through another emotional roller coaster filled with fake smiles on his part so I showed up half an hour earlier, left the keys on the counter and walked out the door for the last time. I must admit, I was a bit sad to leave that house. It was my first house and had been our home for the past 6 years. I was also relieved though, one less thing tying me to him.

I received an email from him today telling me he had changed his personal email . I made the list along with a few other lucky people

All of our communication has either been through texts or work email so I'm not sure why he decided to "throw me on the list".

Hopefully next time I see him it'll be to sign divorce papers


Sometimes you have to stand alone, just to make sure you still can.

Posts: 58 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Canada
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, June 17th (Monday)

Onward!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25382 | Registered: Aug 2011
anewday78
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Member # 39357
Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, June 17th (Monday)

Congratulations! One big step behind you and only one more to go. If/when he emails/texts you next, you should tell him that you require no further communication from him. Everything that's left can be handled through your respective attorneys.
Now you should go out celebrating with friends and enjoy the single life. Get dressed nice and go out somewhere fabulous for martinis with your girlfriends!

[This message edited by anewday78 at 6:57 PM, June 17th (Monday)]


Posts: 350 | Registered: May 2013
movingforward13
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Member # 38405
Default  Posted: 10:10 PM, June 17th (Monday)

Woooo hoooo, ass hole. He is a fucking idiot.


Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

Posts: 638 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: DC
Burtajk
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Member # 36668
Default  Posted: 6:57 AM, June 18th (Tuesday)

I would change my personal email and not tell him!

Posts: 1 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Uk
Bravenewgirl
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Member # 36267
Default  Posted: 7:31 AM, June 18th (Tuesday)

awesome!!! Your strength and grace throughout this whole ordeal has been astounding to witness.

I am so proud of you and rooting for your fabulous new beginning.

Agree about changing your email...what the fuck would he need to contact you about that could not go through lawyers?

Maybe make a special email just for him.
I wonder if DoucheBox@gmail.com is taken? He should get the hint.


Don't come around here no more
-Tom Petty

Posts: 661 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Canada
SBB
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Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 8:16 AM, June 18th (Tuesday)

I wonder if DoucheBox@gmail.com is taken? He should get the hint.

Oh, my ribs. One for the quotes thread.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5559 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
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