To say our R has been rocky is putting it mildly. Today, I just want to share some good for a change. WH has been so proactive in "seeing" me. Turns out, he has been seeing me - just gets in his own way. He has been assuming what I need and ignoring what I say. Lots of paralysis by analysis too. First step is him admitting and seeing it.
That stopped yesterday. Yes I know it's way too soon to count it, but for today, just for today, it counts. The last two days, he is a man I didn't know still existed. Again, for today, all is well and I shall enjoy it. I know more bumps are ahead in our road but today - all is well. I have had triggers and hurt these last two days but in the end - all is well today. Only took almost 9 months to say that. LOL! Me - 42 BS
Him - 45 WH (sodamnsorry)
Dday #1 - 9-20-12
Status: tried the world's plan - trying God's now ;)