What confused said!
I can only control my actions and reactions.
We both continue to work on ourselves and what we need to do to be good partners but I don't think even this "affair proofs" our marriage. It just means, hopefully, if issues do come up, we have better coping mechanisms! You are not dealing with rational people or situations. Normal thought processes won't work...story of my life.
Me- BW, 28
Him- fWh, 34
In R...bought a house and got a puppy...And now baby is here! She arrived August 18, 2013, precious and b