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Markay81
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Member # 39387
Default  Posted: 1:09 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

Ok this probably doesn't sound like much. We used to joke (not so much now) that my WH is a emotional cripple. 2 emotions happy or mad. Anyways, we work different shifts. Him really early and me the late shift. I woke up this morning to a short note on my bedside.

Bade, I love you so much. I am truly grateful for the 2nd chance you are giving to me. I will not let you down this time. Love Always & Forever, Me

Now I know this wouldn't mean much to some people. But knowing my H the way I do this is huge. So I am taking this small victory and holding on to it.


Ugh! Sometimes reality sucks.
BS (me) 31
WH (him) 33
OW - married Bar Whore Rig Rat
Married 14 years
3 amazing kids
DDay-3/03/2013 TT.The whole truth came out(hopefully) 06/09/2013
Currently on the roller coaster of R.

Posts: 48 | Registered: May 2013
authenticnow
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Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

It's the little things that are the big things!

Good for you and good for H!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 37093 | Registered: Sep 2007
HFSSC
Member
Member # 33338
Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

That is huge, actually. For him to step outside his comfort zone and do something that is proactive and healing for you.

YAY Mr. Markay! Good job!


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2695 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
AFrayedKnot
Member
Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 1:19 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

Beautiful


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2552 | Registered: Aug 2012
Chefj9
Member
Member # 38604
Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

Happy for you! It's the little things....


ME - BS 49, Him - WS 46 trying to "R"
4 DD's - blended 25, 15, 15 and 12
Multi DDays the grand finale 5/13/2013
From here on out, I am only interested in what is real. Real people, real feelings, that's it, that's all I'm intere

Posts: 470 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Texas
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