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Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

Probably not a pity-party per se. Just overwhelmed.

Found out that FIL was taking lewd photos of DD about a month and a half ago. He is being charge with sexual exploitation of a minor, facing 10 years.

My dad was rushed to hospital last week. Turns out he has congestive heart failure. Still awaiting test to confirm the severity.

Going to a funeral this afternoon for one of my buddies who had a heart attack at work last week. 40 years old, two kids.

House is destroyed because we move up to Washington in 10 days.

Not really a pity party I guess. But shit, there is a lot of stuff to deal with.

Anyway, don't want to break the forum guidelines, but the family and my friends family could use some prayers/thoughts.


My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.

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Default  Posted: 3:10 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

Wonder boy, you and your whole family will certainly be in my prayers. Lots of strength and peace to you.

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Him, 40 (JMSSC)
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Posts: 2780 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
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Default  Posted: 3:11 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

Oh, wonderboy. Any one of those things is a plateful of stress, let alone the whole banquet.

Sending you, your DD, and your family so much strength and comfort. Hang in there. (((((wonderboy & family)))))

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- Carlos Santana

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Default  Posted: 3:12 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

Oh have mercy. Hope your DD is ok.

I'm sorry about your friend.

Will be lifting your family up in prayer.

Tossing y'all mojo for the move.

Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

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Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

(((wonderboy & family)))

I'm sorry for all you and your family are going through. Sending you strength, prayers, and hope for better days.

[This message edited by jo2love at 3:25 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)]

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Default  Posted: 3:25 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

OMG! That's a lot to deal with. I'm so sorry for your daughter and your family. What a horrible thing for her to go through

Sending lots of (((hugs))) and strength to your daughter, your family and your friends family. I'm sorry for their loss

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Default  Posted: 3:31 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

damn-hang in there, wonderboy))))

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Member # 34716
Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

Thanks gang. We are just trucking along and dealing with things as they come up. Of course, the primary focus is DD, but, from what the police have uncovered, is not as bad as it could have been.

My Friends call me Wonderboy--That's Mr. SuperduperWonderboy to you Tred.

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Default  Posted: 4:57 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

Prayers of strength and recovery headed your way!

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Default  Posted: 5:00 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)


when it rains it pours!!

So sorry you are dealing with so much at one time.

Sending lots of prayers and mojo your way. Vent here anytime. Definitely not a pity party at all.

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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

I'm so sorry, wonderboy. Sending hugs and love and prayers.

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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

That is an awful lot to deal with. Sending many positive thoughts to DD, you, your family, and your friend's family.

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Default  Posted: 6:25 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

I'm so sorry, wonderboy. This is terrible for your poor dd.

You and your family are in my thoughts during this time.

(((Wonderboy and dd)))

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Default  Posted: 9:11 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

you have a lot on your plate right now... sending Prayers and positive thoughts to you and your family.


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