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tesla
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Default  Posted: 9:56 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

This is so tough. I'm getting a lot done...doing some stuff for me...actually being social and enjoying it.

But my god, do I miss that child. Talked to him tonight and he told me all about a circus he went to. Then he says when he gets home he needs a hug and kiss and noses. (We do this every night before bedtime.) I tell him if he closes his eyes he can see me give him a great big hug, big old smooch on the forehead, and rubbing noses.

Sunday night cannot get here soon enough. I hate this.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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scotslass
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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

Sending you hugs tonight.


3 wonderful children (sometimes!!)
18 ds
16 dd
14 ds
Me. - moving on and upward !!!

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ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

Aww, we do noses too

Big hugs Tesla. I'm sure sweet little Teslet will be back before you know it..


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fallingquickly
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Default  Posted: 10:17 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

I used to do noses with my children when they were small, too. Now after hugging them and kissing their cheek we rub cheeks. Have done that almost forever. Have I mentioned they are now 19 and 21? :)
Nothing feels sweeter than rubbing your cheek against your child's. Just thinking about it makes me smile.

I'm glad to hear you're being social and getting lots done. Teslet will be home before you know it and you can overdose on Teslet time.


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Him-STBXWH

2 Ddays and lots of TT
divorcing

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)

((((tesla)))) One day closer, honey. Hang in there.


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 12:46 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Aw man, it's only Tuesday... but tomorrow will be Wednesday.

Loooong week for you babe.

(((Tesla)))


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 12:55 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 1:39 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)

((Tesla))


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Posts: 1348 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Bravenewgirl
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Default  Posted: 3:04 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Oh man, a whole week without Teslet...poor momma bear. Its too long.

Big hugs to you lady. I am glad you are making good use of your time. Try, if you can, to keep busy so the time passes quicker.

((((((((tesla and teslet))))))))


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Posts: 661 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Canada
courageous
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Default  Posted: 6:21 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)

I'm sorry. I know it's rough. Friday is almost here just hang in there and it will be here before you know it.

((Tesla))


Me: BW (35)
Him: ExWH (31) EA/PA with MOW coworker
Married 9 years, 2 small kids
dday 3/12/2011 divorced fall 2012

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Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 7:06 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Awww Tesla.
DD#1 and I do noses too since she's decided she doesn't like kisses.

Hang in there. A week is a long time and you will be so excited to see him on Sunday and he will be so excited to see you too.

Keep posting. Keep busy.
Your house will look fantastic by Sunday.


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1405 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 7:27 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)

It is tough, hang in there!

I miss them everyday I am not with them and I realized what I really miss is that we don't get to have many of the experiences together that should have been ours to experience.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:35 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)

(((Tesla)))

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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 8:26 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)

((tesla))


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Bebba1171
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Default  Posted: 10:34 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)

(((Tesla)))

On business in SoCal now. I miss my corgis. I like to rub noses with them!

Totally understand.


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 52 (Me) / XWW 50 - ages back in 2011
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 727 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: USA
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 10:40 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)

My son and I used to do noses too and snuggle a lot. I miss those days. He's 16 now and at almost 6ft, he's a bit too big for such things now.


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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 11:24 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)

(((tesla))). I'm sorry this is hard for you. It sounds like teslet is thinking of you, too, even in all the excitement of his trip. He needs and misses your grounding.

My kiddos and I did noses, too - decades ago. (Ugh! Has so much time gone by?).


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Crescita
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Default  Posted: 11:29 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)

(((tesla)))

I still love Eskimo kisses.


Posts: 3397 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 7:21 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

A little more than halfway to Teslet time.... Hang in there...


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Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Hang in there. You're halfway there!

(((tesla)))


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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ruinedandbroken
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

OMG, Me too!!!!!!!!!!!! I will get them back for 4 days tomorrow and then they go back to Satan for 2 more weeks. :( This has been one of the longest weeks of my life.


“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 6&9
Married 14 yrs Together 21

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