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Jessy1501
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Default  Posted: 8:46 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)

My 93 year old father was admitted to the hospital yesterday. He has an infection and it seems like he had a stroke, but we don't know for sure because he can't get an MRI due to his pacemaker. We'll see what the second CT scan shows today and what the neurologist says. He hasn't said a word since yesterday morning and hasn't been able to eat since Monday night.

I'm asking for positive thoughts and prayers for a quick recovery so we can get him back home to his usual self. TIA!


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:58 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)

(((Jessy+Dad)))


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)

(((((Jessy and Dad))))) Keeping him in my thoughts.


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There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:05 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)

(((Jessy and Dad)))

Sending mojo, prayers, and positive thoughts.




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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 9:28 AM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Prayers sent


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

You got it... prayers and positive thoughts coming to you and your dad.

Hugs too,

K


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sportsfan
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Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Prayers and Mojo coming to Jessy and dad from PA.

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simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Sending (((HUGS))) and positive thoughts your way.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
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dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Sendinng your father and you prayers, positive thoughts, and warm hugs!


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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 6:16 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

((((Jessy + dad))))


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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

(((Jessy & Pop))) Sending warm and caring thoughts for a speedy recovery.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


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click4it
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Default  Posted: 11:59 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

((((jessy))) sending positive thoughts for you and your dad.


Me: 41
Two boys: 16 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

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wannabenormal
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Default  Posted: 12:33 AM, June 20th (Thursday)

You're in my thoughts girl!

((Jessy1501))


BW, divorced: 03/09


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Jessy1501
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Default  Posted: 3:06 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

He has meningitis and the infection is in his brain. Dr basically told us at his age and his state, it's usually fatal. Keeping the hope that my pops will be the exception. I'm more worried about my mom than anything.

Prayers for strength!


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Newlease
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Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

Sending strength and peace.

NL


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Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 4:02 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

(((Jessy)))

Healing thought to you and your dad.


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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 4:03 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

(((Jessy and family)))

Sending strength and healing prayers


Me: BSO - 45
Him: FWSO - 68
DS - 12
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 6:09 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

(((Jessy & Family))) I'm sorry to hear this. Sending positive thoughts and energy....


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
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Jessy1501
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Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, June 27th (Thursday)

Update on Pop...

The doctors are pretty much amazed at the turnaround he has made....he's off the feeding tube, talking more, very alert and recognizes all of us. I guess he's not ready to leave us just yet.

He's still in the hospital and still on antibiotics...but making a strong recovery and hopefully we can get him home soon.

Thank you for all of your thoughts and prayers. They all mean the world!


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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 8:46 AM, June 27th (Thursday)

Continued prayers for Pop!

(Looks like many have been answered already! )

AJ's MOM


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"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, June 27th (Thursday)

Glad he's improving!

Continued mojo.


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 9:14 AM, June 27th (Thursday)

Wonderful update!! Continuing to send healing thoughts



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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 10:34 AM, June 27th (Thursday)

Great news. What a tough guy!!!

More healing thoughts, mojo and prayers coming. Make sure they are doing PT/OT with him so he isn't soo weak when its time to come home that he cant'. I see this all too often.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 14 & 16
Married for 21 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 12:24 PM, June 27th (Thursday)

More mojo for Jessy's Dad!


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

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