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Sad in AZ
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Content  Posted: 12:23 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Granny Sazzy!

Yup; DIL is pregnant. I am happy yet cautiously optimistic given their recent troubles. I wish I could be 'over the moon' happy, but such is life.

I can't wait to be the crazy grandma that introduces my grandchildren to bugs, snakes, birds, hiking--and someday, wine!


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

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click4it
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Default  Posted: 12:25 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Aw congrats! I like the granny nickname too.

My mom refused to be called grandma by both my kids and to this day is only referred to by her first name.


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d-day 10-02-01

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Default  Posted: 12:25 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Yay! Congrats to you, DS and DIL.

Don't you have some Italian in your ancestry? If so then wine introductions should begin around 5 or 6 don't you think? We have to honor our heritage after all.


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Default  Posted: 12:31 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Yes, gahurts; wine as early as they'll take it

If I have to wait till they're legal, I'll be almost 80


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Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Oh, such great news!

Congrats!

AJ's MOM


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Default  Posted: 12:52 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Granny Sazzy! LOVE it. Does that come with a costume? or a rocking cane/hiking stick you can beat the young whipper snappers with if they reach for your wine without permission?


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S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

YaaaaaaaY

Congrats


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Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Yay, nonna!!

You're going to have that baby taking his/her first steps out on some trail along an East Texas swamp. I plan to be there with my camera and a canteen of wine. You know, as support.


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Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)


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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)


Take up your space (and do it well).

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Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

YAY! Congrats Sazzy and family!


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Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Congrats Granny Sazzy.

Grandkids are the reward for not killing your kid when you had the chance.

I love being Grammy... no way to describe it... the kid is a tremendous amount of fun in a pint sized person.


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Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Congratulations to all!


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Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Congrats Granny !!! (DS and DIL too !)
I feel similar with my new GS and his parents. They don't have the best relationship but keep working it on it.
I've decided just love on the little guy and be the best Grandma.

Are they going to find out what sex the baby is ?
We were calling him P months before he was born.
Gma


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Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Congrats!
Grandkids are the reward for not killing your kid when you had the chance.


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Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Congrats, Sazzy (DS & DIL). Grandkids are the best thing. I agree with whoever said that you should have your grandchildren FIRST!


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Default  Posted: 2:01 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Congratulations!


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Default  Posted: 2:18 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Congrats!


Me: BS
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Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
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Default  Posted: 2:19 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)


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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

awwwwwww yay!!!


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Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)


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to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

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Default  Posted: 2:50 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Congrats!!

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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)


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Default  Posted: 6:18 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Congrats to all of you!


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Default  Posted: 6:20 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

How about Grazzy?

What wonderful news!

And wine. Yes, wine.


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Default  Posted: 6:21 PM, June 19th (Wednesday)

Great news!! Congratulations!! And you look fantastic for being a Grazzy


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Edith
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Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

Oh I am so happy for you! I am going to be a first time grandmother also. In fact, I am throwing the gender reveal party next week, I get to reveal the baby's gender to my son and his wife. Can't wait!!

Blessings to you and yours.

E.


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Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

Welcome to the Gramma Club, Sazzy! You're gonna love it.


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Default  Posted: 10:19 PM, June 20th (Thursday)


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Default  Posted: 11:55 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

Congrats and welcome to the best club around. Snuggle , cuddle em, spoil em an then pack em off to mom and dad!! Gma's and Gpa's have the best thing going.


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Default  Posted: 9:59 AM, June 21st (Friday)

Congrats!!

ETA: So tell us...how many baby knitting projects have you already started?

[This message edited by GabyBaby at 10:00 AM, June 21st (Friday)]


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SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
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Default  Posted: 11:23 AM, June 21st (Friday)

Congrats!!

Now you've *done* it, 'Sazzy' is going to stick,


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Default  Posted: 11:40 PM, June 21st (Friday)

Yay! Lucky!


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WH (Trac-fone), 53, PD
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multiple d-days
DIVORCING
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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 2:41 AM, June 22nd (Saturday)

Thank you for all the good wishes! I'm still processing

I spoke to DS tonight; they're having serious money problems. Life can be very complicated...

To answer your question, Gaby--NONE You know I'm a procrastinator; I probably won't start knitting until DIL goes into labor


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Default  Posted: 7:29 AM, June 22nd (Saturday)

Congrats Sad

As far as the money problems, they'll figure it out


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Default  Posted: 9:31 AM, June 22nd (Saturday)

Congrats, Granny Sazzy! Sending happy and healthy vibes to your DIL for an easy and stress-free pregnancy and L/D!


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Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, June 22nd (Saturday)

To answer your question, Gaby--NONE You know I'm a procrastinator; I probably won't start knitting until DIL goes into labor


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity.


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Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, June 22nd (Saturday)

Congrats Granny!!!


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Default  Posted: 11:35 PM, July 8th (Monday)

Don't forget. Grandparents and grandkids get along so well b/c they have a common enemy!!


me BS the Big 6-0!!
him WS 56
married 28 years
together 31
DD 6/10/08
ow #1,2 lta on and off since 1995
ow 3 ons summer 2005
2 D, mine from prior marriage, but he raised them
R'ing...probably not....but then again, maybe....


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Default  Posted: 9:41 AM, July 9th (Tuesday)

Yay! Welcome to the ranks of the luckiest people on earth. It's sad that the circumstances are less than wonderful, but you will absolutely LOVE being a granny/grandma/nana.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

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Default  Posted: 9:49 AM, July 9th (Tuesday)

Congratulations! I am so very much looking forward to being a grandma, lots of plans what to do with the grandkiddies.. All the stuff I did not get to do as a responsible mother


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, July 9th (Tuesday)

DS was trying to lay on the guilt last night to get me to move to New Mexico--they're still in Georgia! I told him if I followed him everywhere, I'd be living out of a tent.


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Default  Posted: 10:11 AM, July 10th (Wednesday)

Welcome to the ranks of the luckiest people on earth.

Amen!

((((HUGS))) and congrats!!


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 31 years 9/2/14
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS,22 mo.& 2 mo. GD (DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

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