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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:51 AM, June 20th (Thursday)

5 years ago today, I took a sick day and filed for divorce. After filing at the court house, I put fuel in his truck and picked up some supplies that he needed. How messed up was that?

The past 5 years have been many things: full of change, full of tears, full of laughs, much angst. There has also been: a wonderful group of friends, SI, some funny dates, and the emergence of one extremely independent chick.

I wish that I had taken control of my life years earlier.

My hope for the next 5 years is a life that continues to be well lived. The 2nd life of Williesmom has been so much better than the first one.

I think I have moved past FTG to the stage of "what guy, was I ever married?".


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7541 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
healingk
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Member # 28889
Default  Posted: 7:58 AM, June 20th (Thursday)

Good for you. keep it going!


Ws 59
Bs me--57
Married 39 years
D Day 11/30/08
Just trying to feel normal.It is getting there, but very slow.

Posts: 178 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: Tennessee
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, June 20th (Thursday)

Wishing you years filled with all the happiness you deserve.

Posts: 34670 | Registered: Mar 2011
hopefullromantic
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Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, June 20th (Thursday)


It's not really a fairy tale 'till the witch is deposed and a few dragons are slain

Posts: 1754 | Registered: Oct 2007
RunningBlind
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Member # 39203
Default  Posted: 9:46 AM, June 20th (Thursday)

This post gives me hope.. thank you for sharing.

It's also scary but perhaps in a good way because while where you are is so far from where I'm at right now, I can visualize myself there. And that's my hope.


me: BS, early 30's
him: WS, early 30's
2 young kiddos

Posts: 45 | Registered: May 2013
myheadreallyhurt
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Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, June 20th (Thursday)

Yay for hope and future! I wish you well and hope your life continues to become what you want it to be.


"See that no one repays another evil with evil, but always seek after that which is good for one another"

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