I sought out some OW sites, to get an idea of OW's mental space and all I can say is Fight fire w/fire & all that other clap trap.
It's utterly amazing how utterly delusional alot of these OW are. I've read some things that are just utterly incredulous.
The thing I've noticed in most cases is how much these women demonize the wife, despite all the blather of how they don't.
Interesting window into the world of crazy ...