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sadsenior
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

Saw this today and loved it.

Forgiveness doesn't excuse their behavior.

Forgiveness prevents their behavior from destroying your heart.


Posts: 51 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Seattle
PinkJeepLady
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

Thanks for sharing that little gem! Forgiveness is interesting isn't it? I like your quote, nicely said.
It's going on my wall of quotes.
Hoping you are enjoying a nice evening, take care!


Me: BW-54. Him-FWH 54. DDay June 1st 2012 cheating with prostitutes overseas
R-ing
"Not everything that counts is counted. Not everything that is counted counts." Albert Einstein

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sadsenior
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Default  Posted: 10:23 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

Thank you! You too. Some of the things we come across help us, hope this one does for others. I don't know what I would do without all of you great people!

Posts: 51 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Seattle
gma56
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Default  Posted: 10:28 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

Forgiveness doesn't excuse their behavior.

Forgiveness prevents their behavior from destroying your heart


Well said.

Forgiveness is truly for us !
I know people that are as bitter and angry as the day they had dday. It's sad because the XS doesn't give a damn so it hurts no one but us,especially so many years later.
ETA: I don't want FT to take another minute of happiness and joy away from me. He did enough.
Gma

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It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. I lost my family but gained a chance to be happy again.

Posts: 20354 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
hurtininHouston
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Default  Posted: 8:49 AM, June 21st (Friday)

I am looking for good quotes to get me through. I just posted looking for a mantra. Thanks for this.

Thought of the thinker never leave their mind.
Only we can hurt ourselves.
I know this, but I still hurt myself daily..... :(


Posts: 57 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Houston
UMBL
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Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, June 21st (Friday)

What a great quote! thank you for posting! I can't even wrap my mind around forgiveness right now, but I know I will need to eventually for me to heal.


BW - UMBL "Unhappily Married But Looking". His most recent Yahoo chat group
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Blended Family - 2nd Marriage
DDay #1 - Jan 2009
DDay #2 - June 2013

Posts: 58 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Alabama
hurtininHouston
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Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

OMG after last nights fight I need to find out how to forgive soon or I am going to be eaten alive by anger, hate resentment and more. I did great for several weeks. Went on a romantic trip and all. Now 2 weeks later I am dredging up all her past sins. I am so tired of feeling like this. I like it when I don't even think about it........Help. How can I stop thinking about it. I love her, but fuck....I am exhausted.....help

Posts: 57 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Houston
bufffalo
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Default  Posted: 4:02 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Houston....down in "fun and games" there is a quote thread...pages of them...check it out!! I think its at the top the page...

Bufffalo

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