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lieshurt
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Member # 14003
Default  Posted: 6:07 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

Today, I read this on Facebook and thought this could be food for thought for many of us:

If you are single, focus on being a better you instead of looking for someone better than your ex. A better you will attract a better next.

[This message edited by lieshurt at 6:07 PM, June 20th (Thursday)]


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


Posts: 13648 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 6:10 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

I like that quote. I'm working on me. If I'm destined to be with someone, it will happen when the time is right. Till then, I'm vegging with myself.

Posts: 33943 | Registered: Mar 2011
FaithFool
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Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 6:32 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

Vegging here. Maybe permanently and I don't care.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17171 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Kajem
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Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

Veggin here... and it's ok.. learning a lot about me.

Hugs,

k


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4859 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
tryingagain74
Member
Member # 33698
Default  Posted: 9:01 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

Vegging!

I really like it. It's so peaceful. I feel like my home life is so much happier, and I love that I feel less pressure because I'm not in a soul-sucking relationship, trying to date, anxiously dating someone, etc.

*sigh of contentment*


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3543 | Registered: Oct 2011
MyVoice
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Member # 35695
Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

yes yes and yes


Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

Posts: 469 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Australia
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