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User Topic: If I didn't love him this would be easy right?
cuppacoffee
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Member # 39313
Default  Posted: 6:20 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

I'm on a couple of rough days here. I cannot get over how people in general just can't understand the value of a promise or vows. Why do people think its okay to steal someone from a bf/gf/spouse. Why do they constantly have to say shit like "a ring would stop me but no ring means game on."

I am no angel but damn it. Why can't people just be respectful of each other?



I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

Posts: 345 | Registered: May 2013
hobbeskat
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Member # 38805
Default  Posted: 6:26 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

They weren't stolen. They went willingly.

Posts: 305 | Registered: Mar 2013
anv5
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Member # 39217
Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

(((cuppacoffee)))
No wise advise just want you to know you are not alone!!
I too have thought "damn this would be so much easier if I didn't love him" & my wh says he felt unloved unwanted etc etc didn't want to be alone forever if we didn't work out & I told if I just had wanted out of this M you giftwrapped that & handed it to me...
No wonder I love my dogs more than I like most people


BS(me)30
WH 29
1 Child
Married 11 yrs
D-Day: 4/9/13 he cheated in '08 & now + trickle truth & tons of lies 6/27 Found more, swears I really do have the whole truth now.
2/2/14 found out more...it seems the TT never ends.
Trying to R

Posts: 70 | Registered: May 2013
huRtZ413
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Member # 39214
Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

feel ya, i was that girl if he had the "taken sign" oh yeah im staying faaaarrr away . i wouldnt even want to be caught staring ....where is the respect ?

my case im guess this little college blond got a kick on how many married men she could get ....disgusting . i im glad ill never see her because she would be eating though a straw for the rest of her life.

ppl like that show go to jail
i mean its a crime against us , its the worst pain ever !!!


it would be so easy to let go if there wasnt love there

[This message edited by huRtZ413 at 6:33 PM, June 20th (Thursday)]



me_BW
him_WH


I'M ON THE FENCE



Posts: 278 | Registered: May 2013
cuppacoffee
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Member # 39313
Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

The husband had the balls to say if the ow would have had a ring he would not have been close to her. Wtf? What about his ring?

The fight started because he was encouraging a friend from work in the friend's pursuit of this new girl at work who has a casual bf. seriously there are enough single women out there.


I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

Posts: 345 | Registered: May 2013
Topic Posts: 5