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stunnedin12
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

website today pertaining to an interest of mine....

The author has the same first name as chickie! ARHGH I can't get away from her name even!

I think I'm going to bang my head against the wall now!


ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Not sure, but trying I guess.

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Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 7:15 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

I know how it is. There's a book that is written for WSs on helping your spouse heal from an A. Can't remember the title offhand.

The author's first name is xOw2's mom's name. The author's last name is xOw2's married name, which is similar to her maiden name. Since xOw2's mom has written a couple of books, I had a moment of WTF when I saw the author's name...until I realized the difference in last names.

I can laugh about it now...and the fact that the pipes in our basement have xOw2's name on them (part of the company name). Now I say it's fitting her name is used when we flush our toilets.

It sucks, but the sting goes away.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

❣I hope my issues don't discourage ur healing. I've buried a lot & my WH hasn't done his part in R❣


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Jennifer99
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Default  Posted: 9:37 AM, June 21st (Friday)

I have totally cut junk food from my diet since I now have to avoid the chip/snack aisle at our local stores cuz they have a brand of chips with her name and he was actually buying them for a while during my clueless time and making great jokes about it.

Now if i want to feel better I buy a bag, open one end a tiny bit to let out the air and put them under a tire and drive back and forth, back and forth.

And I don't even hate her. Just her name cuz it means so much to him.


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welcome14
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Default  Posted: 9:45 AM, June 21st (Friday)

t/j- Jennifer her name is Lays? How fitting...

[This message edited by welcome14 at 9:45 AM, June 21st (Friday)]


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I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.


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Jennifer99
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Default  Posted: 10:01 AM, June 21st (Friday)

Nah, Stacy.

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stunnedin12
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Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, June 21st (Friday)

Now if i want to feel better I buy a bag, open one end a tiny bit to let out the air and put them under a tire and drive back and forth, back and forth.

Oh - This sounds like a great idea! Sadly, the name doesn't work.


ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Not sure, but trying I guess.

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