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User Topic: Seriously, when will this end???
orlando222
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Default  Posted: 10:03 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

It's been a long time since I've been back here! Long story short, my ex served me with child support mod papers last week. He makes $44,000 a year more than I do, in the past 6 years hasn't taken the 40% of his time sharing and now wants to nickel and dime me over $300. He has no debt except his $1300 a month mortgage in which his roommate pays $500. Yeah it's not about getting back at me. Bastard. Thanks for letting me vent guys :)


Me: 41
EX LOSER: 41
Ds: 10yrs
DD: 7yrs
Married: 8/12 yrs
Together: 16 yrs
DDay: July 22,2006
Filed D: 1/19/07
Divorced: 5/11/07

Posts: 537 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: Florida
SBB
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Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 11:32 PM, June 20th (Thursday)

It might be time to play hardball. Is CS calculated on the % of time he has the kids? If so you need to talk to your L or the CS agency and look at recouping the difference.


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Posts: 5535 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
orlando222
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Member # 12235
Default  Posted: 7:06 AM, June 21st (Friday)

Yes my CS is based on that plus expenses like daycare and that's what went down in cost. It seems no matter what these idiots will do anything just to make thing difficult


Me: 41
EX LOSER: 41
Ds: 10yrs
DD: 7yrs
Married: 8/12 yrs
Together: 16 yrs
DDay: July 22,2006
Filed D: 1/19/07
Divorced: 5/11/07

Posts: 537 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: Florida
7yrsflushed
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Default  Posted: 7:48 AM, June 21st (Friday)

What strongbutbroken said.

Time to play hardball indeed. If you have documented the fact that he has NOT been spending his 40% with the children as agreed then merrily march yourself right into court or the CS agency and watch as the judge/agency orders his dumbass to pay even more child support to cover the fact that he is not honoring his 40% time commitment.

ETA: check with your lawyer first to make sure you have everything you need.

[This message edited by 7yrsflushed at 7:50 AM, June 21st (Friday)]


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Posts: 1899 | Registered: May 2011 | From: VA
JustWow
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Default  Posted: 7:57 AM, June 21st (Friday)

is that cash from the roommate rental income that needs to go into the equation?

if the roommate is not on the mortgage - could be :)


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Mousse242
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Default  Posted: 1:36 PM, June 22nd (Saturday)

Yep to everything and then see about making him pay for any attorney fees for this due to the fact it's his fault for not taking the kid(s) on his time.

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