My experience is so different, and he's on his third chance. Most who know say, "things happen, people make mistakes, you have a nice house, you've been together so long, all long term marriages have issues, he loves you, you have to forgive, just move on, we'll now you're even" and on and on.
It makes me crazy...,
his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12
me (WW/BS): 48
4 kiddos in mid 20's
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huRtZ413 Member Member # 39214
Posted: 11:20 AM, June 21st (Friday)
There is no way to get even I don't think....it sucks that you are in this ,doesn't it all suck why we're here? Well as far as chances goes I'm the fool me once shame on you fool me twice your ass is grass.
I guess to me once is a mistake , but if you do it again it proves to be something completely diff