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tryingagain74
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Member # 33698
Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, June 21st (Friday)

As I told my siblings, tonight it's time to party like it's 1998 (the last year that I was single before I married Dopey).

I got my papers today, on my last day of teaching. This is the start of a beautiful summer!

One more round for good measure:


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3606 | Registered: Oct 2011
million pieces
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Member # 27539
Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, June 21st (Friday)

Congratulations!!!


Me - 42
2 kids, 9 and 11
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Divorced 11/15/11!!!!

Posts: 1246 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: MD
DeadMumWalking
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Member # 25341
Default  Posted: 5:00 PM, June 21st (Friday)

Congrats, best wishes for your new life!!


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2588 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
stronggirl72
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Member # 37293
Default  Posted: 5:01 PM, June 21st (Friday)

I should be getting mine any day now. In fact, they could be in the mailbox now. Enjoy your freedom!


"Taking the high road, and doing it with class."

DIVORCED!!


Posts: 154 | Registered: Oct 2012
wildbananas
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Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 5:02 PM, June 21st (Friday)

Congratulations! I was happy as hell when I got mine... here's a for you, too!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15396 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
bbee
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Member # 17840
Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, June 21st (Friday)


This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1


Posts: 6655 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US
tesla
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Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, June 21st (Friday)

Woo-hoo!!!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4634 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, June 21st (Friday)

Yay!!!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25382 | Registered: Aug 2011
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, June 21st (Friday)

Wishing you a wonderful NB!!

Posts: 35238 | Registered: Mar 2011
Sweetness8
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Member # 25674
Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, June 21st (Friday)

Congratulations and happy everything to you! It's great to hear that this horrid process has an actual ending at some point.


BW: 43 WH: 39 We are done.
Married 15 years with two kids: Cool Boy is 10 and Auburn Girl is 14
D-Day #1: 9-2009, 6-month EA/PA with H.S. friend. Did it ever end? D-day #2 on 5-2-13: Found OW's current pic on his cell.

Posts: 80 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Zoo of the New
Coraline
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Member # 36434
Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, June 21st (Friday)

Congratulations!


Me: BW, 34 Him: WH, 35
3 Kids: 9, 3, and 1
Decree nisi will become absolute in January. We are DONE.

Posts: 771 | Registered: Aug 2012
scotslass
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Member # 39204
Default  Posted: 10:11 PM, June 21st (Friday)

Congrats. I know how you are feeling!!!!!
Enjoy


3 wonderful children (sometimes!!)
18 ds
16 dd
14 ds
Me. - moving on and upward !!!

Posts: 102 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Texas
fraeuken
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Member # 30742
Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, June 21st (Friday)

Congrats. I hope mine are there when I get home from vacation.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1255 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
TrustGone
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Member # 36654
Default  Posted: 12:20 AM, June 22nd (Saturday)


BW-50
WH#2-51
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
FaithFool
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Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 2:30 AM, June 22nd (Saturday)

Congratulations!!!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17394 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Bluebird26
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Member # 36445
Default  Posted: 6:24 AM, June 22nd (Saturday)

Yay! Here's to your new beginning :)


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1335 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
SBB
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Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 7:56 AM, June 22nd (Saturday)

I cannot wait for that feeling.

I too will party like its the first half of 2002.

A toast to you!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5559 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
solus sto
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Member # 30989
Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, June 22nd (Saturday)

Congratulations!


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 8703 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
gma56
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Member # 19595
Default  Posted: 4:31 PM, June 22nd (Saturday)


The first taste of freedom !

Congrats !
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20375 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
Pippy
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Member # 16482
Default  Posted: 6:29 PM, June 22nd (Saturday)

Wooohoooo. Life gets better from now on.


I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
M 30 yrs.


Posts: 9588 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: East of the Rockies
copout
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Member # 22421
Default  Posted: 7:41 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Congratulations!!


Every new beginning comes from some other beginnings end.

Posts: 290 | Registered: Jan 2009
thebighurt
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Member # 34722
Default  Posted: 8:33 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Glad I saw this. Congrats! Hope you had a great time celebrating. I felt the same way.

(I guess this means the wedding is a go..?)


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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