Topic: I am officially divorced!
Member # 33698
| Posted: 4:46 PM, June 21st (Friday)|
As I told my siblings, tonight it's time to party like it's 1998 (the last year that I was single before I married Dopey).
I got my papers today, on my last day of teaching. This is the start of a beautiful summer!
One more round for good measure:
BS (Me) 39
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Posts: 3620 | Registered: Oct 2011
Member # 27539
| Posted: 4:52 PM, June 21st (Friday)|
Me - 42
2 kids, 9 and 11
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Posts: 1264 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: MD
Member # 25341
| Posted: 5:00 PM, June 21st (Friday)|
Congrats, best wishes for your new life!!
Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options
Posts: 2604 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Member # 37293
| Posted: 5:01 PM, June 21st (Friday)|
I should be getting mine any day now. In fact, they could be in the mailbox now. Enjoy your freedom!
"Taking the high road, and doing it with class."
Posts: 154 | Registered: Oct 2012
Member # 10552
| Posted: 5:02 PM, June 21st (Friday)|
Congratulations! I was happy as hell when I got mine... here's a for you, too!
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Posts: 15412 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Member # 17840
| Posted: 5:15 PM, June 21st (Friday)|
This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.
Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3
Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.
All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1
Posts: 6655 | Registered: Jan 2008 | From: SE US
Member # 34697
| Posted: 5:20 PM, June 21st (Friday)|
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Posts: 4683 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Member # 33226
| Posted: 5:22 PM, June 21st (Friday)|
You can call me NIK
"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana
Posts: 25696 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 31528
| Posted: 5:53 PM, June 21st (Friday)|
Wishing you a wonderful NB!!
Posts: 35801 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 25674
| Posted: 7:13 PM, June 21st (Friday)|
Congratulations and happy everything to you! It's great to hear that this horrid process has an actual ending at some point.
BW: 43 WH: 39 We are done.
Married 15 years with two kids: Cool Boy is 10 and Auburn Girl is 14
D-Day #1: 9-2009, 6-month EA/PA with H.S. friend. Did it ever end? D-day #2 on 5-2-13: Found OW's current pic on his cell.
Posts: 80 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Zoo of the New
Member # 36434
| Posted: 7:25 PM, June 21st (Friday)|
Me: BW, 34 Him: WH, 35
3 Kids: 9, 3, and 1
Decree nisi will become absolute in January. We are DONE.
Posts: 771 | Registered: Aug 2012
Member # 39204
| Posted: 10:11 PM, June 21st (Friday)|
Congrats. I know how you are feeling!!!!!
3 wonderful children (sometimes!!)
Me. - moving on and upward !!!
Posts: 102 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Texas
Member # 30742
| Posted: 11:57 PM, June 21st (Friday)|
Congrats. I hope mine are there when I get home from vacation.
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
Posts: 1260 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
Member # 36654
| Posted: 12:20 AM, June 22nd (Saturday)|
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.
Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
Member # 20150
| Posted: 2:30 AM, June 22nd (Saturday)|
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 17488 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Member # 36445
| Posted: 6:24 AM, June 22nd (Saturday)|
Yay! Here's to your new beginning :)
"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.
Posts: 1358 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 35229
| Posted: 7:56 AM, June 22nd (Saturday)|
I cannot wait for that feeling.
I too will party like its the first half of 2002.
A toast to you!
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
Posts: 5608 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 30989
| Posted: 1:53 PM, June 22nd (Saturday)|
WH (Trac-fone), 53, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke
Posts: 8829 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
Member # 19595
| Posted: 4:31 PM, June 22nd (Saturday)|
The first taste of freedom !
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
Posts: 20382 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
Member # 16482
| Posted: 6:29 PM, June 22nd (Saturday)|
Wooohoooo. Life gets better from now on.
I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.
M 30 yrs.
Posts: 9588 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: East of the Rockies
Member # 22421
| Posted: 7:41 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)|
Every new beginning comes from some other beginnings end.
Posts: 293 | Registered: Jan 2009
Member # 34722
| Posted: 8:33 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)|
Glad I saw this. Congrats! Hope you had a great time celebrating. I felt the same way.
(I guess this means the wedding is a go..?)
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
Posts: 2380 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
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