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mtab
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Member # 36981
Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, June 21st (Friday)

Some might recall that 2 weeks ago we really hit a low point, he threatened to move out, I encouraged him to, and then he changed his mind after packing up.

I told him later that week I was really disappointed to wake up the next day and find him still here, and felt that day each day...

So last Saturday he gave me a verbal timeline, and also accidentally exposed 4 notes he got from the OW at work, which he had hid from me...

but I didn't get too upset, as I have withdrawn so much.

Funny thing is, he seems to have "got it" finally. Last night I told him that I called OW and left a message on her phone that if she contacted him in ANY WAY again I would post her scummy picture on Cheaterville for all to see, and how funny it is that she has been searched for on Cheaterville over 20 times, so lots of people think she's a slut.

He reacted well, thought it was only fair for me to do that, thought I was being more than fair to give her a warning, and promised me again he would tell me if she tried contact again.

Best reaction I've seen from him in 9 long months.

Maybe there is some hope...

[This message edited by mtab at 11:59 PM, June 21st (Friday)]


me:BW 64
him:WS 65
married 22 years
DDay: Sept. 4, 2012
2 sons (his)
1 grandchild
A: 6 mos (according to him) UPDATE:11 months is the latest admission....


Posts: 57 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: off grid middle of nowhere
painpaingoaway
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Member # 27196
Default  Posted: 8:42 AM, June 22nd (Saturday)

Glad things are looking up mtab!


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7113 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
mtab
Member
Member # 36981
Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, June 22nd (Saturday)

Thanks pain.

Some of us hang our hats on such slim hopes and crossed fingers these days...


me:BW 64
him:WS 65
married 22 years
DDay: Sept. 4, 2012
2 sons (his)
1 grandchild
A: 6 mos (according to him) UPDATE:11 months is the latest admission....


Posts: 57 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: off grid middle of nowhere
Topic Posts: 3