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tabitha95
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Member # 22033
Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, June 22nd (Saturday)

My son's both needed to be circumcised yesterday. They got the genetic misfortune of having too much foreskin. My 13 year old has been suffering. My 10 year old has been doing better. I had to take off their bandages and it was nearly 3 hours of them fighting me on it. Finally ds10 said he needed both his parents. I called ex and her came over. I had several anxiety attacks during this whole ordeal. Finally we got them off and both boys were relieved. Ex left and I've locked myself in my room. I hate this so much. It's unfair to the kids.

Earlier my sister called. She was a long term OW twice. She now has a new boyfriend who took her to Hawaii. She just bought a new house. And she has a second interview for a promotion which will pay a lot more.

Not to be a bitch, but she has no karma from interfering in two marriages. My parents paid for her college out of town and she didn't have to work. I had to pay for my own and could only afford to stay in town and work full time. She's always been the golden child
and I've had to work harder.
Nothing in my life seems to go right.


BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

Posts: 3250 | Registered: Dec 2008
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 10:35 PM, June 22nd (Saturday)

((((HUGS))))


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9814 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
caregiver9000
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Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 10:52 PM, June 22nd (Saturday)

(((hugs)))


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5859 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
macakipa
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Member # 33735
Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Oh sweetie!

I hope you were able to make it through the night in a calmer state.

Stay the path, your time is coming. (((tabitha95)))


M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."

Posts: 952 | Registered: Oct 2011
thebighurt
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Member # 34722
Default  Posted: 8:48 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

(((tabitha95 & DSs)))

I know what you mean. Some people just seem to either be charmed or oblivious. At least you can hold your head high and know within yourself that you have integrity. She may feel self-satisfied and go merrily on her way, but others, like you, know the truth.

And, it ain't over 'til it's over. It may still come crashing down for her. People like that seem to ignore certain signs and situations. Hang in there, hon.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2380 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
newnormal
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Member # 21925
Default  Posted: 2:19 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Karma is just setting her up to fall in proportion to her missdeeds.


BS 43 (me)
FWH 48
D-day 9/07

Dont retreat, reload.
"Pull that knife out of your back - and sever the fuel line to that bus you got thrown under" Bufffalo


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