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User Topic: Guess what!?!? I'm Engaged!!!
okaynow
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Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, June 22nd (Saturday)

6 years ago today my SO and I met. The first time we actually saw each other was for coffee one morning at McDonald's. For sentimental reasons, he took me there today before we went out to a nice dinner. We were sitting there and he popped the question! He had a beautiful engagement ring in a pretty box in his pocket, pulled it out, and asked me if I'd be his wife.

I was stunned speechless!!! When my voice finally returned I croaked out a "yes" (at least I think I said it out loud!) and started crying....and crying....and crying. He was teary eyed, too.

For anyone who has doubts, there IS a light at the end of the tunnel...and it is beautiful.

Thank you to everyone at SI for helping me heal and get to this point. I love you all.


Married 18 yrs, together 25+.
D-day: 2/18/07.
1 child
The story doesn't really matter anymore. Time is a great healer. Life is good.

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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 11:07 PM, June 22nd (Saturday)

Congratulations!!!!!!!


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 51850 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 11:49 PM, June 22nd (Saturday)

Awwww...congratulations


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 19964 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
sadtoo
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Member # 2027
Default  Posted: 12:04 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

YAY!! Congratulations.


It is what it is, not what we hope it can be.

When another woman takes your husband,
sometimes the best thing you can do for
yourself is to LET HER HAVE the worthless
bum.
OC born 2001
Divorced 2003
Remarried 2008 (New Guy)


Posts: 7999 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Iowa
gma56
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Member # 19595
Default  Posted: 12:12 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Congrats !!!

Your light (at the end of the infidelity tunnel) is shining very brightly !
Hugs
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. I lost my family but gained a second chance to be happy.

Posts: 20341 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
She11ybeanz
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Member # 27457
Default  Posted: 12:13 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

YAY!!!!! Congrats darlin!!!

This gives me hope!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2713 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
thyme2go
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Member # 12908
Default  Posted: 12:15 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Yay! This could not happen to a better person!

-t2g


BH - no longer 48
3 DD's - (27, 24 and 17)
Divorced on 8/6/09

Posts: 9175 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: Eastern Washington
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 12:16 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Congratulations!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15379 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
foreverempty
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Member # 34426
Default  Posted: 12:20 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Congratulations... That's awesome


Me BS: 35
Her WW: 34
D Day 5th December 2011
Current status: Filled for divorce 23rd Jan 2012. Response from WW was not to beg for forgiveness, but deleting me from Facebook.

Posts: 605 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: United Kingdom
persevere
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Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 1:58 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Congrats and best wishes!


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4442 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 4:00 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Congrats!!!!

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sheila0304
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Default  Posted: 7:41 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Congrats!!!
I love the engagement posts. I'm such a romantic. At this point in my life I live romance vicariously through my SI family. I hope someday I will posting one of these but until then thanks for posting.

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Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 9:40 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Congrats...and i love your tagline.

The old story really doesn't matter anymore.


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2625 | Registered: Jan 2010
better4me
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Default  Posted: 11:30 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

BEST WISHES!!! So sweet that he took you to McDonald's to pop the question!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3063 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
scotslass
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Member # 39204
Default  Posted: 1:19 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Congrats.


3 wonderful children (sometimes!!)
18 ds
16 dd
14 ds
Me. - moving on and upward !!!

Posts: 102 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Texas
cass
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Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Congrats and Best Wishes


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4963 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
meaniemouse
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Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Congratulations! I love hearing these stories and I really needed it today.

Best wishes for a lifetime of happiness!


Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James

Posts: 2099 | Registered: May 2006 | From: Midwest
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Congrats!!


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4138 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
TearInYourHand
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Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Congrats! =) That's a really sweet story. So happy to hear this!


35 - FBSO
“Integrity has no need of rules.”

Posts: 957 | Registered: Apr 2007 | From: Maryland.
dreamlife
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Member # 8142
Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Wishing you both all the best!!!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25406 | Registered: Sep 2005
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Awww... congratulations, okay!!!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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