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HFSSC
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Content  Posted: 11:34 PM, June 22nd (Saturday)

JM and our DS14 went to a men's retreat this weekend, called Wildfire Weekend. There were a lot of speakers (including Willie and Jase Richardson from Duck Dynasty and Tim Tebow, among others) It's the first time he's ever been to anything like that and was a wonderful time for him and DS to bond and grow together.

There were several sessions that he really enjoyed, and a lot of encouragement to the men to be the husband and father they are called to be. So anyway, he called me today and told me he was getting me something really special.

And here it is:

He bought us matching rings. The inscription is Hebrew "I am my beloved's and my beloved is mine" which is one of my favorite scriptures. Mine fits perfectly and matches my diamond nicely.

I love this man.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2695 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
stilllovinghim
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Default  Posted: 2:00 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

awww!! And good on him for setting the example for his DS!

The band and inscription are both beautiful.


“You have a choice. Live or die.Every breath is a choice. Every minute is a choice. Every time you don't throw yourself down the stairs, that's a choice. Every time you don't crash your car, you re-enlist.”
― Chuck Palahniuk, Survivor

Posts: 1942 | Registered: Oct 2010
AFrayedKnot
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Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 7:14 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2553 | Registered: Aug 2012
painpaingoaway
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Member # 27196
Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

LOVE it! So happy for you.


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7029 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
HFSSC
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Member # 33338
Default  Posted: 7:54 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Thanks, y'all.

PPGA, I would NEVER have predicted this outcome on that day in May last year when you and I met. I thought my life was over that day...turned out to be the beginning of the best part.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2695 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
LoveActually
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Member # 31030
Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Ohhhhh that is so sweet and so beautiful! How wonderful for you!


BS (Me)
WS (Him)
D-Day 5/29/09
Married 11 yrs, together 16 yrs

Posts: 768 | Registered: Jan 2011
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Lovely! Very sweet and considerate of Jm. Happy for you two, you both deserve it. ((((HFSSC & JM))))


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9492 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Beyond
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Member # 3011
Default  Posted: 6:40 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Ahnee l'dodi, v'dodi li

(that's about as good as I can get phonetically with the Hebrew!)

Mazel tov, HFSSC!


XOW.

Posts: 341 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Virginia
LA44
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Member # 38384
Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Nice post! Thanks for sharing.


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

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Skan
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Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

That''s just beautiful!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4677 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 8:34 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)


Me: FBW/30 Him: FWH/33 The kidlets: DS13, DS10, and DD8 The hounds: Four Shih Tzu's
Finally, completely R'd
Clothed in strength and dignity, with nothing to fear, she smiles when she thinks about the future.~Proverbs 31:25

Posts: 11544 | Registered: Dec 2009
HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 8:55 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Posts: 5631 | Registered: Aug 2007
SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Ooo! Pretty!


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

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