User Topic: You are not going to believe what I just saw...
Member # 34353
Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

a video on MSN where a BW threw the OW off a cliff and down a ravine. The OW says there was no affair, the WH admits there was an affair. The wife has moved out. Its all on video. Most people who commented said she should have thrown the husband off the cliff to. The OW just has a few cuts and scrapes. No charges have been filed against the BS>

Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile

Posts: 1647 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.
Member # 38975
Default  Posted: 4:58 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Yahoo. One for the good guys !!!

"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." - Maya Angelou

Posts: 1207 | Registered: Apr 2013
Member # 39636
Default  Posted: 5:29 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

i saw this too and i thought "good for her" some public humiliation from around the globe(as this has gone viral) for the WH and OW somehow warms my BW heart.

Me: BW 42
Him: WH 47
Married 9 years-together 18
Dday: 6/17/2013 EA/PA(EA 1yr/PA 6mos-OW out of state)
status: Starting R 7/22/13

Posts: 151 | Registered: Jun 2013
Member # 35912
Default  Posted: 5:45 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

I saw it too! thank goodness no-one was seriously physically harmed but the "world wide" public humiliation for OW and cheating stbx is awesome!!!

Posts: 500 | Registered: Jun 2012
Member # 23890
Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Personally throwing someone off a cliff (actually looks to be sloped and maybe 5 feet or something) doesn't appeal. Not that I didn't have my share of fantasies and moments of rage.

But what blew my mind, was the husband - he just walked away. Knew he was caught and just turned and started walking. The OW tried to hide behind him, for protection and he just leaves her to the enraged wife... Yeah...he's a keeper - not!!

"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4135 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
Dark Inertia
Member # 30727
Default  Posted: 6:22 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

That is some fucked up shit.

"If I listened earlier, I wouldn't be here. But that's just the trouble with me. I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it."

Posts: 1284 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: The Ohio
Member # 16953
Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

Of course its fucked up. Shit, prisons and graveyards are full of people because of infidelity. But we glorify it in the media like its a normal thing to do. Its not only accepted in society its actually encouraged in some circles. The denial that the general public has in regard to infidelity is sickening. Its all good till someone gets killed or injured. Then its news.

You cant eat soup with chopsticks.

Posts: 5732 | Registered: Nov 2007
Hearthache again
Member # 28564
Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, June 23rd (Sunday)

I'm with stronger. To many get hurt because of infidelity. I can say in the right situation I can see why people commit murder in the heat of passion.

I have told my husband he is lucky I did not seriously hurt him. I wanted too. My rage was so intense I did not care what I did.

Married-12 years together 13
Kids 4: 15, 12, 8, and 3
DDay#1 9-26-2008 Dday#2 4-26-2010
We have R!!! But I still hate the number 26!

This too shall pass
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Posts: 871 | Registered: May 2010 | From: Michigan
Member # 36654
Default  Posted: 8:50 AM, June 24th (Monday)

It has been going on for a long time. Infedelity causes many a normally sane person to act in ways you and/or they would never think possible. When it comes to matters of the heart/feelings the brain does not always function in coherent ways. My WH#2 actually locked up all our guns when he found out I knew before I got home. Now he and the OW are not worth me wasting a bullet on either of their pathetic asses and me spending my life in prison and I told him so. Throw someone off a cliff? Well, I hope if they do arrest her, I am on the jury.

M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
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