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yougogirl
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Member # 11332
Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, June 24th (Monday)

I recently had my anniversary and every year I dread the date. This year WH posted something somewhat sappy on FB regarding it.

So if I never reply to the post, I look like a jerk, but if I post some loving BS, then I'm a liar.

I hate this.


Me = doormat BS
Him = Narcissistic WH who can't be caught
DD = 10 yo and my reason for living
4 DDogs
D-Day - TBD, maybe when Hell freezes over

Posts: 2303 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: East Coast
Razor
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Member # 16345
Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, June 24th (Monday)

Yes. BTDT. You are not alone at all in hating anniversaries.

We recently had our 40th. WW hosted a big party at our house. Lots of people there. It was very hard for me. I kept to the edges of the party and ran the bbq and drank beer with the men.

I feel our M ended when she jumped into bed with OM.

After Dday I asked her to plan a vow renewal ceremony. She said she would but it never happened. I guess I was not worth it.


Forgive and forget = Relive and regret.

Hope in reality is the worst of all evils because it prolongs the torments of man.
Friedrich Nietzsche


Posts: 3483 | Registered: Sep 2007
yougogirl
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Member # 11332
Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, June 24th (Monday)

Thanks for the reply, Razor, and I'm sorry to hear that you feel the same.

It is hard to put on a smiling face when everyone is wishing you happy anniversary and you just want to punch WS.


Me = doormat BS
Him = Narcissistic WH who can't be caught
DD = 10 yo and my reason for living
4 DDogs
D-Day - TBD, maybe when Hell freezes over

Posts: 2303 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: East Coast
Topic Posts: 3