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purplejacket4
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Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, June 24th (Monday)

So it's MY birthday and my mom and I are out shopping (for tile nothing exciting) when her MOM calls her to complain that she didn't call him on his birthday. Jerk. Go complain to your betrayed wife. Then when she gets off the phone she's like "oh MOM wants you to have a happy birthday." Blech. Just blech.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2078 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
ajsmom
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Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, June 24th (Monday)

Why is she answering his calls?

ETA: HAPPY BIRTHDAY by the way!

AJ's MOM

[This message edited by ajsmom at 2:52 PM, June 24th (Monday)]


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21032 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
purplejacket4
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Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, June 24th (Monday)

Because even after the "affair" ended they still wanted to be "friends."


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2078 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
notquiteoverit
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Member # 32919
Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, June 24th (Monday)

Happy birthday! Please don't put up with that. For her to be "friends" with her affair partner is extremely disrespectful to you.


Me - BS 50
Him - WS 49
SOW - 52 destitute loser
D-day 1/28/11

Posts: 569 | Registered: Jul 2011
tryingagain74
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Member # 33698
Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, June 24th (Monday)

Happy birthday! I hope you do something more fun than shop for tile (unless tiling things is your greatest passion... in which case, I hope the tile purchasing was awesome).


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3537 | Registered: Oct 2011
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, June 24th (Monday)

Happy birthday!

I hope you did something that's more fun that tile-shopping.


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Posts: 9761 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
purplejacket4
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Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 11:38 PM, June 24th (Monday)

Ha! Yes I went to an adult version of Chuck E Cheeze (because I'm still a kid) and tonight went out with friends to a place where you get to paint while drinking wine. It was fabulous!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2078 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
itainteasy
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Member # 31094
Default  Posted: 6:25 AM, June 25th (Tuesday)

Happy Belated!!!

Posts: 3300 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
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