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hurtmywife27
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Member # 38799
Default  Posted: 8:43 PM, June 24th (Monday)

To all the folks involved thank you for allowing me back! We are now coming up to week 17 from the D-Day I caused my wife. Within the few weeks, I have been to therapy and coming to the grips of what did I do? My wife has her ups and downs and don't blame her. Before D-Day everything to her was normal and my selfishness has caused this destruction. At this stage I am not thinking of myself but hers and what would make her happy, I will not abandon her nor hurt her financially. I bought this upon her. After 28 years she has been kind and my best friend and hopefully never loose that. If she should find another then that would be my biggest lost for my bad decision. I will always love her no matter what. Stupid people make stupid mistakes and I guess I was just damned Stupid... Anyone that loves there wife "Please" listen to what I am saying.. No Matter what the reason "No Matter" Talk.. Don't be afraid, don't accuse, and don't blame.. Talk... She is your best friend first. To my wife I Love You.. To all Love your wife and don't let go. If there is anything in life worth fighting for its the one you love. I admit to my bad judgment and to cheat on my wife was just out right sleazy. sorry is just not enough.


WH (me) 59
BS (her) 45
D day 3/7/2013
Married 26 together 28
2 adult sons 25 and 22................................. I Totally screwed up.

Posts: 66 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Toms River NJ
hurtmywife27
Member
Member # 38799
Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, June 24th (Monday)

Administration. Sorry to be a pain in the back end.. But I forgot about the stop sign think and I welcome anyone's input can you please get that off.. Thank You


WH (me) 59
BS (her) 45
D day 3/7/2013
Married 26 together 28
2 adult sons 25 and 22................................. I Totally screwed up.

Posts: 66 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Toms River NJ
metamorphisis
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Member # 12041
Red  Posted: 9:04 PM, June 24th (Monday)

Please note the Stop Sign has been removed. In future hurtmywife27, you have to uncheck the stop sign box before you submit your post.
Thank you.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

Posts: 44975 | Registered: Sep 2006
BaxtersBFF
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Member # 26859
Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, June 25th (Tuesday)

It sounds like you and your BW are still together then? Are things getting any better?

Stupid people do make stupid mistakes, but infidelity is usually a bit deeper than just being stupid. You do have to think about yourself in that regard. You have to spend some time on your own stuff to figure things out, to figure out why you didn't talk to her, to figure out why it took you 28 years to figure out that communication is key. Why did it take so long?


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6099 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
hurtmywife27
Member
Member # 38799
Default  Posted: 7:04 AM, June 29th (Saturday)

Baxter.. Thank You for asking, Yes we are and as she says day to day.


WH (me) 59
BS (her) 45
D day 3/7/2013
Married 26 together 28
2 adult sons 25 and 22................................. I Totally screwed up.

Posts: 66 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Toms River NJ
Topic Posts: 5