User Topic: Still here
Member # 38341
Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, June 25th (Tuesday)

Sorry I haven't been around much. I just can't contribute in any positive way in my current mental state. I'm so up and down and all over the place, I don't even know who I am anymore.

I guess I just need hugs.

Just call me Heart. :)
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything" ~Mark Twain

Posts: 379 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
Member # 36555
Default  Posted: 5:56 PM, June 25th (Tuesday)


Just take it one day at a time.

BS - Me 43 WS - Her 41
DDAY - June 2012 (found the texts)
DDAY2 - Next Day (found out who) EA
TT- till 9/2012 (some PA)
Married 20yrs. 2kids
Status: in careful R. Sometimes spinning our wheels

Posts: 1391 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: USA
Member # 38975
Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, June 25th (Tuesday)

You are not alone and we have all been there. Deep breaths and know we all care and wish you healthy healing. Xoxoxo

"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." - Maya Angelou

Posts: 1182 | Registered: Apr 2013
Member # 38162
Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, June 25th (Tuesday)

We are ready to listen any time!

How about if you think of three character traits you have that you are proud of? The core of you is still there, and infidelity can't damage that unless you let it.

Married 14 years, three amazing kids
H had 17 month EA/PA
D-day 1/5/13

Posts: 787 | Registered: Jan 2013
Member # 15162
Default  Posted: 7:24 PM, June 25th (Tuesday)


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live

Posts: 37352 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
Member # 36988
Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, June 25th (Tuesday)

(((Heart))). So sorry, we are here for you!

DDay - 6/15/11
R started - 7/1/11
False Discl- 9/27/12
Real Discl - 2/12/13
Poly - 3/1/13 Pass!
Me - BS (46)
WH - 52 (SA, NA, WA)
Kids: 2 littles and 1 grown
The road to recovery is long and hard. Some days I am up for it and others not!

Posts: 1084 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Texas
Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 8:36 PM, June 25th (Tuesday)


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

Posts: 4915 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
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