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User Topic: Was in New York yesterday...
SeanFLA
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Member # 32380
Default  Posted: 8:19 AM, June 26th (Wednesday)

...with my son for the day visiting the sights. Being single for a while you can't help but notice all the great looking women walking around, especially on lunch hour!

I used to work in NY when I was younger and now have been working alone independently by myself for the last ten years or so. It made me realize how many potential women are out there. Thinking I need a new job back out there for the social aspect alone.


BS(me) 48
WW 46
1 son 14 yrs old
Married 18 yrs, together 21 yrs

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have." ~ Bob Marley


Posts: 1470 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Zombie Land
TattoodChinaDoll
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Member # 34602
Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, June 26th (Wednesday)

I find myself "appreciating" more, too. For me I think it's even of a sign of detachment. Before I wouldn't even think of looking at another man...and not in some righteous way. But because I really had no interest and because I thought Jerkface was all I needed and I was happy. Though I feel like I'm at a weird age and point in my life. If I appreciate a younger guy I feel like a dirty old lady and if I see a good looking older man I get that scene from Big Daddy in my head...ya know..."old balls."

ETA: If you are close to the city/NJ, go down to F&G and take a look at the NJ g2g in August. If you can come just post for me to put you on the PM list.

[This message edited by TattoodChinaDoll at 8:50 AM, June 26th (Wednesday)]


Me (BW): 32
WH: 33 TimeToManUp
Married: 11 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 9, 5, 3, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011


Posts: 1727 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
Kajem
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Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 11:23 AM, June 27th (Thursday)

I've been working from home while my kids were growing. Now I find myself on the verge of an empty nest and unemployed. So I am looking for something in the real world -

Good luck tcd and sean and anyone else looking for work.

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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