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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, June 27th (Thursday)

Okay.... so this guy I know from my hash running group sent me a message on Facebook today asking if I wanted to go for a run with him on Saturday....and I said....sure! I figure...why the hell not! Now....granted... its different with him because I know him...and he has met my daughter at hash runs because I've brought her to see my group at the on-afters after the run before. He and I chatted some the other night during a weekday hash run and he seems so sweet. Now....granted...he doesn't have a degree. He is a certified massage therapist. And, I think he works another job as well. He is a single dad of a 9 year old. He doesn't drink because he is a recovering alcoholic...(but he hasn't had a drink in 2 years, so I commend him on that!) He's kinda cute too!

It can't hurt to go for a run right??


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


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cayc
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Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, June 27th (Thursday)

Of course not, go!

He's sounds like he might be a good dating candidate.


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 1:34 PM, June 27th (Thursday)

I like that he is a "nice guy" and seems sweet! I need sweet right now. So, I'm gonna go! Besides, if nothing else, I can at least make a new running friend!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2721 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
Later
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Default  Posted: 1:36 PM, June 27th (Thursday)

Sounds great. I love the idea of focusing on common, especially active, interests.

Much better, IMO, than the ritual of eating as a "date."


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OnceInALifetime
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Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, June 27th (Thursday)

Let him catch you if he can!


BH, now divorced

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better4me
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Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, June 27th (Thursday)

and you've already screened him. Yea!


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Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 1:27 AM, June 28th (Friday)

Go for it


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

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Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, June 28th (Friday)

I'm sorry.....this:

so this guy I know from my hash running group

and then this:


He doesn't drink because he is a recovering alcoholic

So, basically, all he does is run and is the DD for all the runners with a drinking problem?

Besides that...Foaming at the Mouth says

ON ON!!


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Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit

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